MY FATHER: I would like you to read these instructions to me. [He proffers a 4-inch-wide technical sheet printed in 3-point type. When he flicks his wrist, it unfurls to approximately 17 inches long.]
ME: Oh hell no.
MY FATHER [patiently]: I need to know how to operate my new ‘electronic’ thermometer, and I would like you to read these instructions to me.
ME: I can’t read those. They’re too small. You want to know how to work your thermometer? Push the button. . . .
MY FATHER: Which button?
ME: There’s only one button, and I can see you’ve already got your thumb over it. Don’t play coy with me.
MY FATHER: This button? [The thermometer beeps.]
ME: Now put the thermometer in your mouth.
MY FATHER: How about you read the instructions. . . .
ME: PUT THE THERMOMETER IN YOUR MOUTH.
MY FATHER: Mmmmf phmmmf mmmm?
ME: Keep your mouth shut. And silent. [The thermometer beeps.] Now take it out. What’s it say?
MY FATHER: Ninety-eight point eight.
ME: And there we go. That’s how you work your thermometer.
MY FATHER: Why don’t you read me. . . .
ME: I’m not going to read these incredibly tiny instructions to you. What more do you need to do than what we just went over?
MY FATHER [suspiciously]: So I just push the button and when it beeps. . . .
ME: Put it into your mouth . . . yes, just like that. . . .
MY FATHER: Phhmmmf mmmm. . . .
ME: Keep your mouth shut until it beeps again . . . and what’s it say?
MY FATHER: Ninety-eight point eight.
ME: We are done. You don’t need the instructions.
MY FATHER: But if you don’t read to me the instructions, how am I supposed to know . . . if the end result . . . if it’s an additive . . . whether the temperature I’m seeing is the actual temperature, or whether. . . .
ME: You think a modern medical device is going to give you a fake temperature reading?
MY FATHER: Well, that’s the question, isn’t it, if the end result isn’t really the result of my actual temperature, but the results of being the temperature it was when my temperature was what it was before.
ME: I know you’re speaking English words, but none of them make sense together.
MY FATHER: A real thermometer, you have to shake down. . . .
ME: Oh. This is a real thermometer. But it’s not relying on mercury. It has no moving component. You don’t have to shake down an electronic thermometer. You take your temperature, wash it after, and that’s it. Every reading is a new reading.
MY FATHER: I don’t know if I can trust it, if I don’t have to shake it down.
ME: Then feel free to shake it down. It won’t accomplish anything, and you’ll look like a fool doing it, but hey. It’s your thermometer.
MY FATHER [peering with increasing suspicion at the thermometer]: It still says ninety-eight point eight.
ME: And?
MY FATHER: How do I turn it off?
ME: It will turn itself off after a minute.
MY FATHER: Why don’t you read the instructions, and see. . . .
ME: The instructions say The thermometer will turn itself off after a minute.
MY FATHER: You didn’t read that from the instructions.
ME: I don’t have to. It’s how these things work. It will turn itself off.
MY FATHER: If you don’t read instructions, how do you know?
ME: Look at the thermometer. Look at it. It’s been about a minute. Is it off now?
MY FATHER: Well, yes.
ME: It shut itself off. See?
MY FATHER: My doctor says I need to be able to read my temperature, and if I don’t know how to work the thermometer, I can’t do that. It could be a life or death situation.
ME: I just taught you how to use the thermometer. What kind of life or death situation are we talking about exactly?
MY FATHER: Because I do not have a spleen, my immune system is compromised, and my doctor has told me that if I have a temperature of one hundred and five, I need to send him an email and he will prescribe an antibiotic that I can pick up at the pharmacy the next day.
ME: An email? Jesus, if you have a temperature of one hundred and five, you sure as hell had better get to the emergency room.
MY FATHER: How am I supposed to know if I have a temperature of one hundred and five if I don’t know how to work the thermometer because you won’t read the instructions to me?
ME: You would know if you had a temperature of one hundred and five.
MY FATHER: How?
ME: If your temperature is one hundred and five, you would be feverish, flushed, probably delirious . . . you’d feel like you were on fire.
MY FATHER: I’ve had many temperatures of one hundred and five before, and never knew.
ME: When did you have many temperatures of a hundred and five?
MY FATHER: Wait a minute. One hundred and five? Maybe I mean one hundred point five. Yes, the doctor wants me to email him if I have a temperature of one hundred point five.
ME: Christ. Of course you mean one hundred point five.
MY FATHER: So why don’t you read. . . .
ME: Listen. Why do you do this to me? You ask for my expertise. Then you refuse to believe me when I share it with you. Every single time.
MY FATHER: I don’t. . . .
ME: You ask me to help you with your passwords, and you don’t believe me when I tell you that your password is correct and that you’re making mistakes when you’re typing it. You argue with me about it. You ask me to show you how to use your thermometer, and I do, twice. Then you refuse to believe I’ve shown you how it works, and you argue some more. If you want me to help, I will help. But you have to trust my assistance when I do.
MY FATHER: I don’t argue. . . .
ME: You’re arguing now! If you want my help, I have to insist that you accept my help, and do so gracefully. Do you hear? Do you?
MY FATHER [mumbling]: I understand.
ME: Do you understand how to work your thermometer? You push the button. You put it in your mouth. You read it when it beeps. You understand, right?
MY FATHER [grudgingly]: I guess.
ME: Okay then.
MY FATHER: But if you’d read me these instructions, just in case. . . .
Tuesday, May 22, 2018
Thursday, May 17, 2018
Conversations with My Father: Passwords Ampersand Porn Edition
MY FATHER: If you have a few minutes, maybe we could look at my iPad. . . .
ME: Oh, god.
MY FATHER: Now, why are you acting like that?
ME: I’m not acting like anything . . . yet. What’s the matter with your iPad?
MY FATHER: Earlier this week I was trying to purchase some very important media items and the iPad would not accept my password. . . .
ME: . . . Because you were typing it wrong.
MY FATHER: I was not typing it wrong. I must have typed it twenty times.
ME: Incorrectly.
MY FATHER: I was not. . . .
ME: You realize I’ve actually witnessed you stab your stubby fingers at the iPad before.
MY FATHER: I was not. . . .
ME: Give me your iPad. Okay. I’m signing into the Apple Store. What’s your password?
MY FATHER: I’ll have to go to the kitchen to see. [He gets to his feet, stumbles into the kitchen, peers at a piece of paper taped to a cabinet door.] It’s . . . um . . . gawrsh. This writing is so small. . . .
ME: Isn’t it your writing?
MY FATHER: Yes, but. . . . gawrsh, but this is small.
ME: I mean, if it’s your list, don’t you have the option to write it as large as you want?
MY FATHER: Gawrsh. All right. My password is . . . capital M, a, d, d, o, x, 1, 7, 7, 4. . . .
ME: Okay, thank. . . .
MY FATHER: Capital M again, a, t, t. . . .
ME: Hold up, hold up.
MY FATHER: . . . a, p, o, n, i.
ME: Jesus. Could this password be any longer?
MY FATHER: 3, 3, 2.
ME: Is that it? No pi to the hundredth decimal or anything?
MY FATHER: Pi? To the hundredth decimal? What are you talking about?
ME: Never mind. I typed in your lengthy password and the store seemed to take it.
MY FATHER: It couldn’t have.
ME: Well, it did. What movie were you trying to purchase?
MY FATHER: Um. I don’t remember?
ME: The only way I can really make sure it worked is to see if it will let me purchase something. So what movie. . . .
MY FATHER: I don’t recall.
ME: How can you not recall? You said you were trying to buy something just earlier this week.
MY FATHER: The title eludes me.
ME: Wait. Was this something, you know . . . personal?
MY FATHER: What do you mean by personal?
ME: Porn. I mean porn. Was it porn?
MY FATHER: No!
ME: It was porn, wasn’t it. Porn’s fine. You’re a big boy. You can buy porn.
MY FATHER [flustered]: Gawrsh, it wasn’t porn! I wasn’t buying porn! Stop saying porn! Buy Army Wives.
ME: I bet it was p. . . .
MY FATHER [loudly]: Just buy the first episode of Army Wives.
ME: Uh-huh. Let’s just. . . . All right. The first episode of Army Wives is downloading onto your iPad. You were typing your password wrong.
MY FATHER: I wasn’t typing my password wrong.
ME: You were typing your password wrong. It’s like, three hundred characters long. You typed it . . .
MY FATHER: I didn’t type my password wrong.
ME: . . . wrong. You realize there’s no other explanation, right? I didn’t do anything except type in your password and hit the purchase button. You need to be more careful when you’re tapping the screen.
MY FATHER: I did not . . . you’re in error, but all right. Now I’m going to want you to figure out what’s happening with my magazine app. When I try to log in. . . .
ME [under my breath]: I bet you’re typing the password wrong.
MY FATHER: . . . I can hear you.
ME: All right. Your magazine app is asking for—guess what?—your password.
MY FATHER [lumbering up]: I have to go to the kitchen.
ME: Of course. I’ll wait.
MY FATHER [from afar]: Gawrsh, this writing is small.
ME: Mmm-hmmm.
MY FATHER: All right. Capital A, m, o, s, and . . .
ME: A-m-o-s-a-n-d?
MY FATHER: No. A, m, o, s, and.
ME: A-m-o-s-a-n-d?
MY FATHER: No. And, like an and.
ME: Whuh? And?
MY FATHER: And.
ME: And?
MY FATHER: And.
ME: And what?
MY FATHER: A-m-o-s-and-a-n-d. . . .
ME: A-m-o-s-a-n-d?
MY FATHER: No!
ME: A-m-o-s-a-n-d-a-n-d?
MY FATHER: No!
ME: I honestly think my brain is about to melt.
MY FATHER: When I say and, I mean ampersand.
ME: At this point I no longer remember what an ampersand is.
MY FATHER: It’s an and.
ME: I wish I drank.
MY FATHER: The password is supposed to be Amos and Andy, with an ampersand between the names.
ME: Oh my god. Why didn’t you just say that?
MY FATHER: I did, several times, but you. . . .
ME [loudly]: Capital A-m-o-s-AMPERSAND-a-n-d-y.
MY FATHER: 1-9-2-2.
ME: Of course there’s more. 1-9-2-2.
MY FATHER: Capital B-l-y-t-h-e. . . .
ME: Christ.
MY FATHER: Exclamation point.
ME: Anything else? Couple of hexadecimal strings or a smattering of old zip codes or something?
MY FATHER: That’s it. Now, if you tell me. . . .
ME: There. Opened your magazine app.
MY FATHER: But how could you. . . .
ME: You were typing your password wrong. I know you don’t want to believe it, and I’m sorry to say it, but you were. When one types your password correctly, as I did, the app magically opens.
MY FATHER: Gawrsh. I don’t understand.
ME: I understand. You pick the most tortuous passwords and store them in tiny handwriting in an adjacent room, and then you make mistakes with them. Stop protesting your innocence and just enjoy your porn.
MY FATHER: ARMY WIVES.
ME: Army Wives still kind of sounds like porn.
ME: Oh, god.
MY FATHER: Now, why are you acting like that?
ME: I’m not acting like anything . . . yet. What’s the matter with your iPad?
MY FATHER: Earlier this week I was trying to purchase some very important media items and the iPad would not accept my password. . . .
ME: . . . Because you were typing it wrong.
MY FATHER: I was not typing it wrong. I must have typed it twenty times.
ME: Incorrectly.
MY FATHER: I was not. . . .
ME: You realize I’ve actually witnessed you stab your stubby fingers at the iPad before.
MY FATHER: I was not. . . .
ME: Give me your iPad. Okay. I’m signing into the Apple Store. What’s your password?
MY FATHER: I’ll have to go to the kitchen to see. [He gets to his feet, stumbles into the kitchen, peers at a piece of paper taped to a cabinet door.] It’s . . . um . . . gawrsh. This writing is so small. . . .
ME: Isn’t it your writing?
MY FATHER: Yes, but. . . . gawrsh, but this is small.
ME: I mean, if it’s your list, don’t you have the option to write it as large as you want?
MY FATHER: Gawrsh. All right. My password is . . . capital M, a, d, d, o, x, 1, 7, 7, 4. . . .
ME: Okay, thank. . . .
MY FATHER: Capital M again, a, t, t. . . .
ME: Hold up, hold up.
MY FATHER: . . . a, p, o, n, i.
ME: Jesus. Could this password be any longer?
MY FATHER: 3, 3, 2.
ME: Is that it? No pi to the hundredth decimal or anything?
MY FATHER: Pi? To the hundredth decimal? What are you talking about?
ME: Never mind. I typed in your lengthy password and the store seemed to take it.
MY FATHER: It couldn’t have.
ME: Well, it did. What movie were you trying to purchase?
MY FATHER: Um. I don’t remember?
ME: The only way I can really make sure it worked is to see if it will let me purchase something. So what movie. . . .
MY FATHER: I don’t recall.
ME: How can you not recall? You said you were trying to buy something just earlier this week.
MY FATHER: The title eludes me.
ME: Wait. Was this something, you know . . . personal?
MY FATHER: What do you mean by personal?
ME: Porn. I mean porn. Was it porn?
MY FATHER: No!
ME: It was porn, wasn’t it. Porn’s fine. You’re a big boy. You can buy porn.
MY FATHER [flustered]: Gawrsh, it wasn’t porn! I wasn’t buying porn! Stop saying porn! Buy Army Wives.
ME: I bet it was p. . . .
MY FATHER [loudly]: Just buy the first episode of Army Wives.
ME: Uh-huh. Let’s just. . . . All right. The first episode of Army Wives is downloading onto your iPad. You were typing your password wrong.
MY FATHER: I wasn’t typing my password wrong.
ME: You were typing your password wrong. It’s like, three hundred characters long. You typed it . . .
MY FATHER: I didn’t type my password wrong.
ME: . . . wrong. You realize there’s no other explanation, right? I didn’t do anything except type in your password and hit the purchase button. You need to be more careful when you’re tapping the screen.
MY FATHER: I did not . . . you’re in error, but all right. Now I’m going to want you to figure out what’s happening with my magazine app. When I try to log in. . . .
ME [under my breath]: I bet you’re typing the password wrong.
MY FATHER: . . . I can hear you.
ME: All right. Your magazine app is asking for—guess what?—your password.
MY FATHER [lumbering up]: I have to go to the kitchen.
ME: Of course. I’ll wait.
MY FATHER [from afar]: Gawrsh, this writing is small.
ME: Mmm-hmmm.
MY FATHER: All right. Capital A, m, o, s, and . . .
ME: A-m-o-s-a-n-d?
MY FATHER: No. A, m, o, s, and.
ME: A-m-o-s-a-n-d?
MY FATHER: No. And, like an and.
ME: Whuh? And?
MY FATHER: And.
ME: And?
MY FATHER: And.
ME: And what?
MY FATHER: A-m-o-s-and-a-n-d. . . .
ME: A-m-o-s-a-n-d?
MY FATHER: No!
ME: A-m-o-s-a-n-d-a-n-d?
MY FATHER: No!
ME: I honestly think my brain is about to melt.
MY FATHER: When I say and, I mean ampersand.
ME: At this point I no longer remember what an ampersand is.
MY FATHER: It’s an and.
ME: I wish I drank.
MY FATHER: The password is supposed to be Amos and Andy, with an ampersand between the names.
ME: Oh my god. Why didn’t you just say that?
MY FATHER: I did, several times, but you. . . .
ME [loudly]: Capital A-m-o-s-AMPERSAND-a-n-d-y.
MY FATHER: 1-9-2-2.
ME: Of course there’s more. 1-9-2-2.
MY FATHER: Capital B-l-y-t-h-e. . . .
ME: Christ.
MY FATHER: Exclamation point.
ME: Anything else? Couple of hexadecimal strings or a smattering of old zip codes or something?
MY FATHER: That’s it. Now, if you tell me. . . .
ME: There. Opened your magazine app.
MY FATHER: But how could you. . . .
ME: You were typing your password wrong. I know you don’t want to believe it, and I’m sorry to say it, but you were. When one types your password correctly, as I did, the app magically opens.
MY FATHER: Gawrsh. I don’t understand.
ME: I understand. You pick the most tortuous passwords and store them in tiny handwriting in an adjacent room, and then you make mistakes with them. Stop protesting your innocence and just enjoy your porn.
MY FATHER: ARMY WIVES.
ME: Army Wives still kind of sounds like porn.
Thursday, May 10, 2018
Conversations with My Father: Six Feet Under Edition
MY FATHER: I know you think you’re finished gardening for the day, but I have one more task for you.
ME: All right. What’s that?
MY FATHER: Do you have the trowel?
ME: Right here.
MY FATHER: Let me just. . . . [Begins grappling with the periwinkle at the edge of the patio]
ME: Are you trying to back those vines?
MY FATHER: Noooo . . . I’m just trying to find the edge. . . .
ME: Do you want me to trim the periwinkle to the edge? I mean, there’s two feet of growth over the concrete.
MY FATHER: Noooo . . . I want you to dig . . . there.
ME [peering at a patch of parched dirt that’s hard as sandstone]: Why?
MY FATHER: Because I told you to.
ME: Listen. That didn’t work on me when I was fifteen, and it’s certainly not going to. . . .
MY FATHER [ignoring me and regarding a patch of dirt a foot away]: No. There. Dig there.
ME [suspiciously]: What is this all about?
MY FATHER: Forty-six years ago, in 1972. . . .
ME: Oh god, it’s a history lesson.
MY FATHER: . . . the first thing your mother and I did, after the movers picked up all our furniture from the old apartment on Waldo lane was to stop at the pharmacy in Lakeside. . . .
ME: Where they sold those antacid tablets you couldn’t find anywhere else.
MY FATHER: . . . and picked up a box of the antacids you couldn’t find anywhere else. . . .
ME: I just said that.
MY FATHER: You mother loved those antacids. I still have a tube of them upstairs.
ME: You keep a package of antacids that’s decades old? Why? It’s not good any more.
MY FATHER: I keep it for sentimental reasons.
ME: You know that you’re the only person not on a hoarders reality show who keeps antacids for sentimental reasons, right?
MY FATHER: Anyway. The next thing we did was to go to the little hardware store next door and make a copy of the deadbolt key to the back door. And what do you think I did with that?
ME: No.
MY FATHER: I—wait, do you mean no, you’re not going to guess?
ME: I mean I figured it out, and no.
MY FATHER: I buried it, right there, and now you’re going to dig—wait, is that what you’re saying no about?
ME: Now you’re all caught up.
MY FATHER: It’s not more than a foot down!
ME: Listen. So far you’ve pointed to there and there and now there. Three spots. You don’t actually know where that key is buried, do you?
MY FATHER: I know it’s somewhere along the edge of the patio.
ME: The patio is eighteen feet long. I’m not digging an eighteen-foot trench.
MY FATHER: Oh, don’t be so . . . besides, I know I didn’t bury it at the end, so you only have to dig maybe a twelve-foot trench.
ME: No.
MY FATHER: Dig for forty minutes, then, and if we don’t find it. . . .
ME: No. Any key that’s been buried for forty-eight years is at this point going to be corroded and unusable.
MY FATHER: That’s nonsense. I buried it in a container.
ME: What kind of container?
MY FATHER: A soup can.
ME: A metal soup can. The kind that rusts.
MY FATHER: I filled it with tissue!
ME: No. What we are going to do is go to the hardware store and make another key, and we will find a magnetic key hiding box that you can attach to a metal object, like the far bottom side of the air conditioner condenser. . . .
MY FATHER [with scorn]: The far bottom side of the air conditioner condenser is the first place a thief would look.
ME: Or we can go to Lowe’s and get a key holder that’s shaped like a fake rock, with a hollow space inside, and we can hide it anywhere in the yard you like. But that’s what we’re doing.
MY FATHER: A . . . fake . . . rock?
ME: It’s a weatherproof manmade material, textured like a rock, that will blend in with its surroundings. It won’t cost more than a few dollars. Get your spare key. Let’s go to the hardware store.
MY FATHER [stalling]: So if there’s an emergency situation, and I need to go to the bathroom, or answer the telephone, or get inside to grab some medicine, and I’m locked out, I have to go hunting around the yard for a fake rock?
ME: If there’s an emergency situation and you need to go to the bathroom, or answer the telephone, or evade terrorists, what would you rather do? Grab a shovel and dig a twelve-foot trench in solid dry earth, or simply pick up a fake rock that you’ve placed in a convenient and easily-remembered spot to retrieve your spare key?
MY FATHER: How about you dig for ten minutes?
ME: Good god, man, but you are stubborn.
ME: All right. What’s that?
MY FATHER: Do you have the trowel?
ME: Right here.
MY FATHER: Let me just. . . . [Begins grappling with the periwinkle at the edge of the patio]
ME: Are you trying to back those vines?
MY FATHER: Noooo . . . I’m just trying to find the edge. . . .
ME: Do you want me to trim the periwinkle to the edge? I mean, there’s two feet of growth over the concrete.
MY FATHER: Noooo . . . I want you to dig . . . there.
ME [peering at a patch of parched dirt that’s hard as sandstone]: Why?
MY FATHER: Because I told you to.
ME: Listen. That didn’t work on me when I was fifteen, and it’s certainly not going to. . . .
MY FATHER [ignoring me and regarding a patch of dirt a foot away]: No. There. Dig there.
ME [suspiciously]: What is this all about?
MY FATHER: Forty-six years ago, in 1972. . . .
ME: Oh god, it’s a history lesson.
MY FATHER: . . . the first thing your mother and I did, after the movers picked up all our furniture from the old apartment on Waldo lane was to stop at the pharmacy in Lakeside. . . .
ME: Where they sold those antacid tablets you couldn’t find anywhere else.
MY FATHER: . . . and picked up a box of the antacids you couldn’t find anywhere else. . . .
ME: I just said that.
MY FATHER: You mother loved those antacids. I still have a tube of them upstairs.
ME: You keep a package of antacids that’s decades old? Why? It’s not good any more.
MY FATHER: I keep it for sentimental reasons.
ME: You know that you’re the only person not on a hoarders reality show who keeps antacids for sentimental reasons, right?
MY FATHER: Anyway. The next thing we did was to go to the little hardware store next door and make a copy of the deadbolt key to the back door. And what do you think I did with that?
ME: No.
MY FATHER: I—wait, do you mean no, you’re not going to guess?
ME: I mean I figured it out, and no.
MY FATHER: I buried it, right there, and now you’re going to dig—wait, is that what you’re saying no about?
ME: Now you’re all caught up.
MY FATHER: It’s not more than a foot down!
ME: Listen. So far you’ve pointed to there and there and now there. Three spots. You don’t actually know where that key is buried, do you?
MY FATHER: I know it’s somewhere along the edge of the patio.
ME: The patio is eighteen feet long. I’m not digging an eighteen-foot trench.
MY FATHER: Oh, don’t be so . . . besides, I know I didn’t bury it at the end, so you only have to dig maybe a twelve-foot trench.
ME: No.
MY FATHER: Dig for forty minutes, then, and if we don’t find it. . . .
ME: No. Any key that’s been buried for forty-eight years is at this point going to be corroded and unusable.
MY FATHER: That’s nonsense. I buried it in a container.
ME: What kind of container?
MY FATHER: A soup can.
ME: A metal soup can. The kind that rusts.
MY FATHER: I filled it with tissue!
ME: No. What we are going to do is go to the hardware store and make another key, and we will find a magnetic key hiding box that you can attach to a metal object, like the far bottom side of the air conditioner condenser. . . .
MY FATHER [with scorn]: The far bottom side of the air conditioner condenser is the first place a thief would look.
ME: Or we can go to Lowe’s and get a key holder that’s shaped like a fake rock, with a hollow space inside, and we can hide it anywhere in the yard you like. But that’s what we’re doing.
MY FATHER: A . . . fake . . . rock?
ME: It’s a weatherproof manmade material, textured like a rock, that will blend in with its surroundings. It won’t cost more than a few dollars. Get your spare key. Let’s go to the hardware store.
MY FATHER [stalling]: So if there’s an emergency situation, and I need to go to the bathroom, or answer the telephone, or get inside to grab some medicine, and I’m locked out, I have to go hunting around the yard for a fake rock?
ME: If there’s an emergency situation and you need to go to the bathroom, or answer the telephone, or evade terrorists, what would you rather do? Grab a shovel and dig a twelve-foot trench in solid dry earth, or simply pick up a fake rock that you’ve placed in a convenient and easily-remembered spot to retrieve your spare key?
MY FATHER: How about you dig for ten minutes?
ME: Good god, man, but you are stubborn.
Tuesday, October 17, 2017
Conversations with My Father: Vagrancy Edition
MY FATHER: You know how, at the end of my street, how my street converges with the Boulevard and Westwood and Hermitage, all at once?
ME: I do.
MY FATHER: Well, last week the traffic lights weren’t working right. First the light for my street is supposed to turn green, and then once it changes to red the light for Westwood is supposed to turn green, and after it goes red the light for the Boulevard turns green, and then once it goes red the light for Hermitage turns green, and then finally after it flips to red, my street’s light. . . .
ME: Yes, I understand the general way traffic lights work, thank you very much.
MY FATHER: Well, I was taking my walk and decided to sit down and take a break, so I was watching the traffic, and I saw that the cars on my street were backed up for an entire block, and you know the blocks on my street are larger than the ordinary street block. So I watched for a while and you know what was happening?
ME: The light was mistimed?
MY FATHER: Go on, guess.
ME: The light wasn’t mistimed?
MY FATHER: No, the light was mistimed. The light for Westwood would turn as usual, then the light for the Boulevard would go for the usual length, then the light for Hermitage would be fine, and then my light would turn green and then three seconds later, guess what it did?
ME: The suspense is truly killing me.
MY FATHER: It would turn red! After only three seconds!
ME: I did not see that coming. Wow.
MY FATHER: I am sensing sarcasm.
ME: I can’t imagine why.
MY FATHER: Anyway. After watching for close to an hour, I called Public Works and let them know that their light was mistimed. Then the next day I went back down to the end of the street and do you know what? It was still happening.
ME: Did you really expect them to act on it immediately?
MY FATHER: Well, here’s the thing. I called them that afternoon, the day after the first call, and they informed me that they’d taken my report into consideration and that they’d sent out a worker to increase the duration of the pedestrian crossing. So not only was the light on my street only allowing cars out for three-second intervals, but they and everyone else had to wait an additional ten seconds during the longer pedestrian crossing phase. So I told them that extra crossing time was not what I’d reported.
ME: Did they fix it the next day?
MY FATHER: No! I went down the day after and the same thing was still happening. So I called Public Works once again and they thanked me for my report and that they’d done as I requested and reduced the duration of the light on my street. So on the third day, it was just blinking green for a second and the line of cars was even longer!
ME: I did not think I’d be saying this about one of your traffic stories, but this is actually entertaining me. Go on.
MY FATHER: So I had a brainstorm. I had an Amazon box that I’d broken down for recycling, so I got it out and got a magic marker and wrote on it, in big letters, CALL 311 TO REPORT THIS LIGHT. And then I walked down to the intersection and went out in the median. . . .
ME: Oh god.
MY FATHER: And held up the sign. . . .
ME: Oh god.
MY FATHER: And walked up and down the line of cars. . . .
ME: You didn’t.
MY FATHER: I didn’t what?
ME: You didn’t stand out there holding a homemade cardboard sign in those sad tatters you wear.
MY FATHER: I wanted them to call Public Works and report the problem!
ME: Oh god. Did anyone give you any money?
MY FATHER: No, no one gave me money. Why in the world would they give me money?
ME: Thank—
MY FATHER: One nice woman did give me a sandwich from her lunch bag.
ME: Oh god.
MY FATHER: I thought that was nice of her. It was ham.
ME: You ATE it?
MY FATHER: Why wouldn’t I eat it?
ME: She gave it to you because she THOUGHT YOU WERE A HOMELESS PERSON.
MY FATHER: She did not. She probably thought I was just hungry from doing my civic duty.
ME: Yes, hungry like a HOMELESS PERSON CARRYING A HOMEMADE SIGN BY THE SIDE OF A BUSY ROAD.
MY FATHER: I don’t think. . . . [Laughs] Oh. I see what you’re saying. Huh! Gawrsh. Well, that puts a different light on things.
ME: YA THINK?
ME: I do.
MY FATHER: Well, last week the traffic lights weren’t working right. First the light for my street is supposed to turn green, and then once it changes to red the light for Westwood is supposed to turn green, and after it goes red the light for the Boulevard turns green, and then once it goes red the light for Hermitage turns green, and then finally after it flips to red, my street’s light. . . .
ME: Yes, I understand the general way traffic lights work, thank you very much.
MY FATHER: Well, I was taking my walk and decided to sit down and take a break, so I was watching the traffic, and I saw that the cars on my street were backed up for an entire block, and you know the blocks on my street are larger than the ordinary street block. So I watched for a while and you know what was happening?
ME: The light was mistimed?
MY FATHER: Go on, guess.
ME: The light wasn’t mistimed?
MY FATHER: No, the light was mistimed. The light for Westwood would turn as usual, then the light for the Boulevard would go for the usual length, then the light for Hermitage would be fine, and then my light would turn green and then three seconds later, guess what it did?
ME: The suspense is truly killing me.
MY FATHER: It would turn red! After only three seconds!
ME: I did not see that coming. Wow.
MY FATHER: I am sensing sarcasm.
ME: I can’t imagine why.
MY FATHER: Anyway. After watching for close to an hour, I called Public Works and let them know that their light was mistimed. Then the next day I went back down to the end of the street and do you know what? It was still happening.
ME: Did you really expect them to act on it immediately?
MY FATHER: Well, here’s the thing. I called them that afternoon, the day after the first call, and they informed me that they’d taken my report into consideration and that they’d sent out a worker to increase the duration of the pedestrian crossing. So not only was the light on my street only allowing cars out for three-second intervals, but they and everyone else had to wait an additional ten seconds during the longer pedestrian crossing phase. So I told them that extra crossing time was not what I’d reported.
ME: Did they fix it the next day?
MY FATHER: No! I went down the day after and the same thing was still happening. So I called Public Works once again and they thanked me for my report and that they’d done as I requested and reduced the duration of the light on my street. So on the third day, it was just blinking green for a second and the line of cars was even longer!
ME: I did not think I’d be saying this about one of your traffic stories, but this is actually entertaining me. Go on.
MY FATHER: So I had a brainstorm. I had an Amazon box that I’d broken down for recycling, so I got it out and got a magic marker and wrote on it, in big letters, CALL 311 TO REPORT THIS LIGHT. And then I walked down to the intersection and went out in the median. . . .
ME: Oh god.
MY FATHER: And held up the sign. . . .
ME: Oh god.
MY FATHER: And walked up and down the line of cars. . . .
ME: You didn’t.
MY FATHER: I didn’t what?
ME: You didn’t stand out there holding a homemade cardboard sign in those sad tatters you wear.
MY FATHER: I wanted them to call Public Works and report the problem!
ME: Oh god. Did anyone give you any money?
MY FATHER: No, no one gave me money. Why in the world would they give me money?
ME: Thank—
MY FATHER: One nice woman did give me a sandwich from her lunch bag.
ME: Oh god.
MY FATHER: I thought that was nice of her. It was ham.
ME: You ATE it?
MY FATHER: Why wouldn’t I eat it?
ME: She gave it to you because she THOUGHT YOU WERE A HOMELESS PERSON.
MY FATHER: She did not. She probably thought I was just hungry from doing my civic duty.
ME: Yes, hungry like a HOMELESS PERSON CARRYING A HOMEMADE SIGN BY THE SIDE OF A BUSY ROAD.
MY FATHER: I don’t think. . . . [Laughs] Oh. I see what you’re saying. Huh! Gawrsh. Well, that puts a different light on things.
ME: YA THINK?
Friday, June 2, 2017
Conversations with My Father: Spy vs. Spy Edition
MY FATHER: Just turn left at the end of the alley instead of right . . . That’s it.
ME: Okay.
MY FATHER: Oh say. See this house here? Right where this cross-street ends? I’m nearly one-hundred-percent sure that it’s a government safe house.
ME: Oh lord Jesus.
MY FATHER: No, strike that. I’m one-hundred-percent sure it’s a government safe house.
ME: You really, really, really watch too much television.
MY FATHER: Why couldn’t it be a government safe house?
ME: Why should it be a government safe house?
MY FATHER: Just look at it. Just look.
ME: Which of the CSI shows put this notion into your head?
MY FATHER (hurt): They have to get the ideas for the CSI shows from somewhere.
ME: They aren’t getting them from the street behind your house.
MY FATHER: Look at those big SUVs parked in front of it. What do you think of that?
ME: I think the people who live there are fond of Ford Durangos.
MY FATHER: They’re big security vehicles with dark windows and they’re probably armored.
ME: Those windows aren’t dark! I can see right through them!
MY FATHER: They’re where the government safe house agents sit.
ME: Then why are they empty?
MY FATHER: They’re inside, guarding the occupants.
ME: I don’t think . . . oh god, this is making my head hurt.
MY FATHER: Think about it! This would be a perfect place to have a quick escape route when their cover is blown. All they’d have to do is hurry the people they’re protecting to the armored cars, then drive up Robin Hood Road to the on-ramp where they’d have access to both 64 or 95.
ME: Although there’s a certain weird logic to that, I really don’t think . . . Have you ever seen anyone going in or coming out?
MY FATHER: I saw a woman ‘going to work’ once.
ME: I can hear your air quotes. Was she wearing a dark jacket and slacks and a white shirt?
MY FATHER: Well, no, but. . . .
ME: Because that’s what the FBI would wear.
MY FATHER: That’s what they want you to think. You know nothing about the art of disguise.
ME: Oh, okay, Disguise Master. I’ve got an idea. Why don’t you go up to the front door and knock and ask if they’re a government safe house?
MY FATHER (with scorn): You think they’d say yes? You know nothing about how these things work.
ME: Do you really think the government would set up a safe house on Whitby that is so obvious that the nosy retired history professor with poor eyesight from around the corner would be able to identify it?
MY FATHER (loftily): I happen to be a very observant concerned neighbor.
ME: Okay.
MY FATHER: Oh say. See this house here? Right where this cross-street ends? I’m nearly one-hundred-percent sure that it’s a government safe house.
ME: Oh lord Jesus.
MY FATHER: No, strike that. I’m one-hundred-percent sure it’s a government safe house.
ME: You really, really, really watch too much television.
MY FATHER: Why couldn’t it be a government safe house?
ME: Why should it be a government safe house?
MY FATHER: Just look at it. Just look.
ME: Which of the CSI shows put this notion into your head?
MY FATHER (hurt): They have to get the ideas for the CSI shows from somewhere.
ME: They aren’t getting them from the street behind your house.
MY FATHER: Look at those big SUVs parked in front of it. What do you think of that?
ME: I think the people who live there are fond of Ford Durangos.
MY FATHER: They’re big security vehicles with dark windows and they’re probably armored.
ME: Those windows aren’t dark! I can see right through them!
MY FATHER: They’re where the government safe house agents sit.
ME: Then why are they empty?
MY FATHER: They’re inside, guarding the occupants.
ME: I don’t think . . . oh god, this is making my head hurt.
MY FATHER: Think about it! This would be a perfect place to have a quick escape route when their cover is blown. All they’d have to do is hurry the people they’re protecting to the armored cars, then drive up Robin Hood Road to the on-ramp where they’d have access to both 64 or 95.
ME: Although there’s a certain weird logic to that, I really don’t think . . . Have you ever seen anyone going in or coming out?
MY FATHER: I saw a woman ‘going to work’ once.
ME: I can hear your air quotes. Was she wearing a dark jacket and slacks and a white shirt?
MY FATHER: Well, no, but. . . .
ME: Because that’s what the FBI would wear.
MY FATHER: That’s what they want you to think. You know nothing about the art of disguise.
ME: Oh, okay, Disguise Master. I’ve got an idea. Why don’t you go up to the front door and knock and ask if they’re a government safe house?
MY FATHER (with scorn): You think they’d say yes? You know nothing about how these things work.
ME: Do you really think the government would set up a safe house on Whitby that is so obvious that the nosy retired history professor with poor eyesight from around the corner would be able to identify it?
MY FATHER (loftily): I happen to be a very observant concerned neighbor.
Thursday, May 26, 2016
Conversations with My Father: Getting Nowhere Edition
MY FATHER: Now normally, to get to the Huguenot Bridge, what I do is to take Parham Road past where our old dentist’s office was—you remember Dr. Pryor, I really never have liked his replacement’s replacement since they moved offices out past where your old French horn teacher lived, right around the corner from that old pharmacy that was the only place I could get the indigestion tablets your mother liked—and then I turn onto River Road. . . .
ME: Wait, I’m confused. Are we driving out to the pharmacy? I thought we were going to the Huguenot Bridge.
MY FATHER: We are going to the Huguenot Bridge, after you turn onto River Road up here. I was talking about where the replacement dentist for the replacement for our original dentist moved, around the corner from the pharmacy where I got the. . . .
ME: Indigestion tablets, yes, I know.
MY FATHER: I still have several rolls of those tablets.
ME: Christ. Throw them out. What are they, twenty-five years old at this point? Thirty?
MY FATHER: They’re a nice memento.
ME: Indigestion pills are not a memento. God, you’re like those hoarders on TV.
MY FATHER: So up here, you’re going to pass first the hardware store where we got the paint for the dining room in 1986, then past where the donut place was that your mother liked when we first moved here even though they tore it down before we moved into our house—gosh, I hadn’t thought about that place for a long time—then we’ll drive by the University of Richmond, and then the Country Club where your mother staged that surprise protest when you were eight, and after we cross the bridge there should be some woods and then Riverside Drive, and then we’re going to look for Elm Street and turn onto Wayburn and then we’ll—
ME: I . . . I can’t. My synapses are melting. You need to slow down.
MY FATHER: What’s the matter?
ME: When I’m driving and I’m having to concentrate on traffic and directions, we need to cut down on the reminiscences and get down to some real directions.
MY FATHER: Real directions.
ME: Practical directions.
MY FATHER: Practical directions.
ME: Okay. We understand each other?
MY FATHER: I think we do.
ME: Okay. This is the bridge. I’m turning right. We’re getting onto the bridge. What’s the next thing we’re doing?
MY FATHER: Okay, we are going to be looking for a set of streets, perpendicular to this street.
ME: A set of streets perpendicular to this street.
MY FATHER: Correct. A set of perpendicular streets at which this street continues on, going both north and south, while the perpendicular streets, which are the ones we're looking for, cross the street we currently are on, easterly and westerly. That is, the perpendicular streets are going in both directions, but not the directions we currently are. . . .
ME: OH MY GOD. You are making my BRAIN ACHE.
MY FATHER: Am I being unclear? There will be a set of streets perpendicular to this one, easterly and wester. . . .
ME: You mean a FOUR-WAY INTERSECTION?
MY FATHER: Well yes, that’s one way of putting it.
ME: It’s the CORRECT way of putting it. Christ.
MY FATHER: Gawrsh. You’re cranky.
ME: What’s next?
MY FATHER: Well. . . .
ME: We are remembering to keep it exact. Keep it precise.
MY FATHER: Exact and precise.
ME: Right. So?
MY FATHER: Okay. There are four lanes ahead. You don't want to be in the far left one, because it makes you turn left, and you don't want to be in the next-to-left one, because that also makes you turn left—there are two left lanes and the traffic light makes you turn left in both of them—and you don't want to be in the next-to-the-next-to-the-left one, because then you have to go straight, so. . . .
ME: IN OTHER WORDS, YOU WANT ME TO TURN RIGHT.
MY FATHER: If you want to boil it down like that.
ME: Oh, I do. I DO WANT YOU TO BOIL IT DOWN.
MY FATHER: Fine, fine. I’ll keep it succinct.
ME: THANK YOU.
MY FATHER [after a pause]: You know you missed the turn back there, right?
ME: GODDAMMIT.
ME: Wait, I’m confused. Are we driving out to the pharmacy? I thought we were going to the Huguenot Bridge.
MY FATHER: We are going to the Huguenot Bridge, after you turn onto River Road up here. I was talking about where the replacement dentist for the replacement for our original dentist moved, around the corner from the pharmacy where I got the. . . .
ME: Indigestion tablets, yes, I know.
MY FATHER: I still have several rolls of those tablets.
ME: Christ. Throw them out. What are they, twenty-five years old at this point? Thirty?
MY FATHER: They’re a nice memento.
ME: Indigestion pills are not a memento. God, you’re like those hoarders on TV.
MY FATHER: So up here, you’re going to pass first the hardware store where we got the paint for the dining room in 1986, then past where the donut place was that your mother liked when we first moved here even though they tore it down before we moved into our house—gosh, I hadn’t thought about that place for a long time—then we’ll drive by the University of Richmond, and then the Country Club where your mother staged that surprise protest when you were eight, and after we cross the bridge there should be some woods and then Riverside Drive, and then we’re going to look for Elm Street and turn onto Wayburn and then we’ll—
ME: I . . . I can’t. My synapses are melting. You need to slow down.
MY FATHER: What’s the matter?
ME: When I’m driving and I’m having to concentrate on traffic and directions, we need to cut down on the reminiscences and get down to some real directions.
MY FATHER: Real directions.
ME: Practical directions.
MY FATHER: Practical directions.
ME: Okay. We understand each other?
MY FATHER: I think we do.
ME: Okay. This is the bridge. I’m turning right. We’re getting onto the bridge. What’s the next thing we’re doing?
MY FATHER: Okay, we are going to be looking for a set of streets, perpendicular to this street.
ME: A set of streets perpendicular to this street.
MY FATHER: Correct. A set of perpendicular streets at which this street continues on, going both north and south, while the perpendicular streets, which are the ones we're looking for, cross the street we currently are on, easterly and westerly. That is, the perpendicular streets are going in both directions, but not the directions we currently are. . . .
ME: OH MY GOD. You are making my BRAIN ACHE.
MY FATHER: Am I being unclear? There will be a set of streets perpendicular to this one, easterly and wester. . . .
ME: You mean a FOUR-WAY INTERSECTION?
MY FATHER: Well yes, that’s one way of putting it.
ME: It’s the CORRECT way of putting it. Christ.
MY FATHER: Gawrsh. You’re cranky.
ME: What’s next?
MY FATHER: Well. . . .
ME: We are remembering to keep it exact. Keep it precise.
MY FATHER: Exact and precise.
ME: Right. So?
MY FATHER: Okay. There are four lanes ahead. You don't want to be in the far left one, because it makes you turn left, and you don't want to be in the next-to-left one, because that also makes you turn left—there are two left lanes and the traffic light makes you turn left in both of them—and you don't want to be in the next-to-the-next-to-the-left one, because then you have to go straight, so. . . .
ME: IN OTHER WORDS, YOU WANT ME TO TURN RIGHT.
MY FATHER: If you want to boil it down like that.
ME: Oh, I do. I DO WANT YOU TO BOIL IT DOWN.
MY FATHER: Fine, fine. I’ll keep it succinct.
ME: THANK YOU.
MY FATHER [after a pause]: You know you missed the turn back there, right?
ME: GODDAMMIT.
Thursday, May 19, 2016
Conversations with My Father: Sexting Edition
MY FATHER: Now, the other problem with my iPad is that it won’t take photos sideways.
ME: You mean, landscape?
MY FATHER: No, it takes photos of landscapes perfectly well.
ME: Well, I set myself up for that one. No, I mean the aspect itself is called landscape—where it’s longer from side to side—versus portrait, where it’s longer up and down.
MY FATHER: Yes. That’s the problem. My iPad won’t do it.
ME: I think what you mean to say is that you don’t know how to do it. Your iPad can do it.
MY FATHER: No. . . .
ME: Yes.
MY FATHER: No, I’m doing it right. . . .
ME: You are aware I’ve seen you use your iPad.
MY FATHER: To take it up and down, I hold it like this . . . and then I click on this. . . .
ME: Yes, and now you have a blurry portrait photo of your cat’s ass.
MY FATHER: Then to take it sideways, I turn it like this, and I click on this. . . .
ME: And now you have a nice landscape photo of the same cat’s ass.
MY FATHER: No, I don’t. It’s not sideways.
ME: Click here and let’s look at. . . . No, not there. Click here to go back. NO, not there. Here. NO, NOT THERE.
MY FATHER [mildly]: I’m just following your directions.
ME: Try keeping your other fingers away from the screen. Just use—Christ.
MY FATHER: My iPad has a weird tendency just to shut off.
ME: Yeah, it’s really weird how that happens when you push the button on top. Here. Give it to me. Good lord.
MY FATHER: You seem slightly tense, for some reason.
ME: Here are the photos you took. See? The first one is portrait. The second one is landscape. See? Sideways. Longer across than up and down.
MY FATHER [peering for a very long time at the screen and swiping back and forth]: Well, it certainly never did that before.
ME: It probably did. You just didn’t. . . .
MY FATHER [pointing]: What’s this?
ME: That’s the edit option. It will let you fool around with things like the brightness and contrast. . . .
MY FATHER: What’s this?
ME: That’s the trash icon.
MY FATHER: What’s this?
ME: You click that icon to send the photo to other people.
MY FATHER: What’s this?
ME: The heart icon just toggles on and off so that you can indicate your favorite photos. They’ll appear in a special ‘favorites’ album. Like, if you have a lot of photos. Let me show you on mine.
MY FATHER: I have three photos. I think I can tell which one is my favorite.
ME: No, you can have more than one favorite. It just means the ones you heart are the cream of the crop. I mean, on my iPad I have . . . fifteen thousand, three hundred and forty-five photos, but I’ve only favorited six hundred and sixty-two of them, which makes it easier to. . . .
MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand, three hundred, and forty-five photos?
ME: But I only have six hundred and sixty-two favorites, which makes. . . .
MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand photos?
ME: Right, so if I favorite the ones I really like. . . .
MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand photos?
ME: What? I mean, that’s from the last ten years, and it’s not really all the photos I’ve. . . .
MY FATHER: My god. Why do you need fifteen thousand photos?
ME: I like taking photos! What?!
MY FATHER: What do you do with them?
ME: I mean, I look at them, I print them. Most of our apartment is decorated with my prints.
MY FATHER: Are you emailing them to people? Are you sexting people?
ME: What do you mean, am I sexting people?
MY FATHER: You know. Sexting people. On your phone.
ME: How many photos of my junk do you think I have?
MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand? Gawrsh.
ME: I don’t have fifteen thousand photos of—! Wait, I think sexting is not the word you think it is. What is sexting, to you?
MY FATHER: When you get on your fancy iPhone and send someone a message with a photo.
ME: That’s texting.
MY FATHER: That’s what I said.
ME: You said sexting. Sexting has a shade of meaning that is very different. . . .
MY FATHER: What’s sexting?
ME: That’s when you take sexy photos of your private parts and sent them in a text message to someone. Sexy texting. Sexting. You know. Like Anthony Weiner. That’s probably where you picked up the word, on NPR.
MY FATHER: Who?
ME: Anthony Weiner. The representative who resigned because he’d sexted with several women.
MY FATHER [after a long pause]: How many photos of your private parts do you have on your iPad?
ME: It’s not fifteen thousand.
MY FATHER [curious]: Exactly how do you fit an iPad down your pants?
ME: You mean, landscape?
MY FATHER: No, it takes photos of landscapes perfectly well.
ME: Well, I set myself up for that one. No, I mean the aspect itself is called landscape—where it’s longer from side to side—versus portrait, where it’s longer up and down.
MY FATHER: Yes. That’s the problem. My iPad won’t do it.
ME: I think what you mean to say is that you don’t know how to do it. Your iPad can do it.
MY FATHER: No. . . .
ME: Yes.
MY FATHER: No, I’m doing it right. . . .
ME: You are aware I’ve seen you use your iPad.
MY FATHER: To take it up and down, I hold it like this . . . and then I click on this. . . .
ME: Yes, and now you have a blurry portrait photo of your cat’s ass.
MY FATHER: Then to take it sideways, I turn it like this, and I click on this. . . .
ME: And now you have a nice landscape photo of the same cat’s ass.
MY FATHER: No, I don’t. It’s not sideways.
ME: Click here and let’s look at. . . . No, not there. Click here to go back. NO, not there. Here. NO, NOT THERE.
MY FATHER [mildly]: I’m just following your directions.
ME: Try keeping your other fingers away from the screen. Just use—Christ.
MY FATHER: My iPad has a weird tendency just to shut off.
ME: Yeah, it’s really weird how that happens when you push the button on top. Here. Give it to me. Good lord.
MY FATHER: You seem slightly tense, for some reason.
ME: Here are the photos you took. See? The first one is portrait. The second one is landscape. See? Sideways. Longer across than up and down.
MY FATHER [peering for a very long time at the screen and swiping back and forth]: Well, it certainly never did that before.
ME: It probably did. You just didn’t. . . .
MY FATHER [pointing]: What’s this?
ME: That’s the edit option. It will let you fool around with things like the brightness and contrast. . . .
MY FATHER: What’s this?
ME: That’s the trash icon.
MY FATHER: What’s this?
ME: You click that icon to send the photo to other people.
MY FATHER: What’s this?
ME: The heart icon just toggles on and off so that you can indicate your favorite photos. They’ll appear in a special ‘favorites’ album. Like, if you have a lot of photos. Let me show you on mine.
MY FATHER: I have three photos. I think I can tell which one is my favorite.
ME: No, you can have more than one favorite. It just means the ones you heart are the cream of the crop. I mean, on my iPad I have . . . fifteen thousand, three hundred and forty-five photos, but I’ve only favorited six hundred and sixty-two of them, which makes it easier to. . . .
MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand, three hundred, and forty-five photos?
ME: But I only have six hundred and sixty-two favorites, which makes. . . .
MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand photos?
ME: Right, so if I favorite the ones I really like. . . .
MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand photos?
ME: What? I mean, that’s from the last ten years, and it’s not really all the photos I’ve. . . .
MY FATHER: My god. Why do you need fifteen thousand photos?
ME: I like taking photos! What?!
MY FATHER: What do you do with them?
ME: I mean, I look at them, I print them. Most of our apartment is decorated with my prints.
MY FATHER: Are you emailing them to people? Are you sexting people?
ME: What do you mean, am I sexting people?
MY FATHER: You know. Sexting people. On your phone.
ME: How many photos of my junk do you think I have?
MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand? Gawrsh.
ME: I don’t have fifteen thousand photos of—! Wait, I think sexting is not the word you think it is. What is sexting, to you?
MY FATHER: When you get on your fancy iPhone and send someone a message with a photo.
ME: That’s texting.
MY FATHER: That’s what I said.
ME: You said sexting. Sexting has a shade of meaning that is very different. . . .
MY FATHER: What’s sexting?
ME: That’s when you take sexy photos of your private parts and sent them in a text message to someone. Sexy texting. Sexting. You know. Like Anthony Weiner. That’s probably where you picked up the word, on NPR.
MY FATHER: Who?
ME: Anthony Weiner. The representative who resigned because he’d sexted with several women.
MY FATHER [after a long pause]: How many photos of your private parts do you have on your iPad?
ME: It’s not fifteen thousand.
MY FATHER [curious]: Exactly how do you fit an iPad down your pants?
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