Thursday, May 19, 2016

Conversations with My Father: Sexting Edition

MY FATHER: Now, the other problem with my iPad is that it won’t take photos sideways.

ME: You mean, landscape?

MY FATHER: No, it takes photos of landscapes perfectly well.

ME: Well, I set myself up for that one. No, I mean the aspect itself is called landscape—where it’s longer from side to side—versus portrait, where it’s longer up and down.

MY FATHER: Yes. That’s the problem. My iPad won’t do it.

ME: I think what you mean to say is that you don’t know how to do it. Your iPad can do it.

MY FATHER: No. . . .

ME: Yes.

MY FATHER: No, I’m doing it right. . . .

ME: You are aware I’ve seen you use your iPad.

MY FATHER: To take it up and down, I hold it like this . . . and then I click on this. . . .

ME: Yes, and now you have a blurry portrait photo of your cat’s ass.

MY FATHER: Then to take it sideways, I turn it like this, and I click on this. . . .

ME: And now you have a nice landscape photo of the same cat’s ass.

MY FATHER: No, I don’t. It’s not sideways.

ME: Click here and let’s look at. . . . No, not there. Click here to go back. NO, not there. Here. NO, NOT THERE.

MY FATHER [mildly]: I’m just following your directions.

ME: Try keeping your other fingers away from the screen. Just use—Christ.

MY FATHER: My iPad has a weird tendency just to shut off.

ME: Yeah, it’s really weird how that happens when you push the button on top. Here. Give it to me. Good lord.

MY FATHER: You seem slightly tense, for some reason.

ME: Here are the photos you took. See? The first one is portrait. The second one is landscape. See? Sideways. Longer across than up and down.

MY FATHER [peering for a very long time at the screen and swiping back and forth]: Well, it certainly never did that before.

ME: It probably did. You just didn’t. . . .

MY FATHER [pointing]: What’s this?

ME: That’s the edit option. It will let you fool around with things like the brightness and contrast. . . .

MY FATHER: What’s this?

ME: That’s the trash icon.

MY FATHER: What’s this?

ME: You click that icon to send the photo to other people.

MY FATHER: What’s this?

ME: The heart icon just toggles on and off so that you can indicate your favorite photos. They’ll appear in a special ‘favorites’ album. Like, if you have a lot of photos. Let me show you on mine.

MY FATHER: I have three photos. I think I can tell which one is my favorite.

ME: No, you can have more than one favorite. It just means the ones you heart are the cream of the crop. I mean, on my iPad I have . . . fifteen thousand, three hundred and forty-five photos, but I’ve only favorited six hundred and sixty-two of them, which makes it easier to. . . .

MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand, three hundred, and forty-five photos?

ME: But I only have six hundred and sixty-two favorites, which makes. . . .

MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand photos?

ME: Right, so if I favorite the ones I really like. . . .

MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand photos?

ME: What? I mean, that’s from the last ten years, and it’s not really all the photos I’ve. . . .

MY FATHER: My god. Why do you need fifteen thousand photos?

ME: I like taking photos! What?!

MY FATHER: What do you do with them?

ME: I mean, I look at them, I print them. Most of our apartment is decorated with my prints.

MY FATHER: Are you emailing them to people? Are you sexting people?

ME: What do you mean, am I sexting people?

MY FATHER: You know. Sexting people. On your phone.

ME: How many photos of my junk do you think I have?

MY FATHER: Fifteen thousand? Gawrsh.

ME: I don’t have fifteen thousand photos of—! Wait, I think sexting is not the word you think it is. What is sexting, to you?

MY FATHER: When you get on your fancy iPhone and send someone a message with a photo.

ME: That’s texting.

MY FATHER: That’s what I said.

ME: You said sexting. Sexting has a shade of meaning that is very different. . . .

MY FATHER: What’s sexting?

ME: That’s when you take sexy photos of your private parts and sent them in a text message to someone. Sexy texting. Sexting. You know. Like Anthony Weiner. That’s probably where you picked up the word, on NPR.

MY FATHER: Who?

ME: Anthony Weiner. The representative who resigned because he’d sexted with several women.

MY FATHER [after a long pause]: How many photos of your private parts do you have on your iPad?

ME: It’s not fifteen thousand.

MY FATHER [curious]: Exactly how do you fit an iPad down your pants?

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