In the last collection of my reviews, I bemoaned the fact that all the non-fiction I’d read in the previous year had been soapy tell-all celebrity bios. I’ve certainly turned around that unfortunate trend in the last six months. A biography of Wilkie Collins, who isn’t so much a celebrity as Charles Dickens’ also-ran, just doesn’t count.
The best page-turner of this lot was The Museum of Extraordinary Things. The best re-reads were Brat Farrar and Bab: A Sub-Deb (of course). My nomination for most dreadful book of the year, so far, is Havisham; my most disappointing re-reads were Thank You, Jeeves and And the Band Played On.
Thank You, Jeeves
by P. G. Wodehouse
3 of 5 stars
Taken as a whole, the majority of Wodehouse's Jeeves stories and novels—delightful and genuinely funny as they are—are an indistinguishable stew of cow creamers, ukelele-playing, Bertie Wooster's aunts, mistaken identities, uncooperative cats, and country home farce. To the modern reader, Thank You, Jeeves, however, has the misfortune to be the book in which Wodehouse relies heavily on racist tropes in order to pull off his usual high-concept humor.
Jeeves fans contemporary to the book's publication no doubt didn't bat an eyelash at Bertie Wooster's liberal employment of a certain racial epithet that today's readers consider provocative and even taboo. The fact that Bertie spends two-thirds of the novel in blackface chased by police certainly advances the plot, from Wodehouse's perspective, but again to modern readers more sensitive to these issues, it's unsettling to witness the racist assumptions of another era played out on the comedic stage.
Wodehouse's intentions aren't to blame here, and his wit and comedic style are intact as ever. As a document of the period in which it was written, however, Thank You, Jeeves is enough to make even the author's diehard fans wince and distance themselves from this volume.
I Was Vermeer: The Rise and Fall of the Twentieth Century's Greatest Forger
by Frank Wynne
4 of 5 stars
Wynne's fast-moving account of Han van Meegeren, the Dutch forger who made a fortune forging Vermeer paintings, is paced like a thriller and steeped in art world lore. Despite the book's briskness, Wynne manages to address a good many questions about the nature of art itself, the 'reality' of its authorship, and the emotional ways in which its owners and admirers become attached. The book could've done with a few plates of the works in question, but that omission doesn't detract from a fun, interesting read.
Havisham
by Ronald Frame
2 of 5 stars
There's a point, early on in Ronald Frame's alternate literary take on Miss Havisham, at which I thought he was going to go the whole Sarah Waters route, complete with lesbian passion and Victorian intrigue in a Grand Guignol setting.
A pity he didn't. All that's left is an unconvincing tale told in bland snippets of dialogue and juvenile rumination better suited to notes passed in a sophomore's algebra class. Never before have I been so close to cheering whenever Miss Havisham got too near the fireplace.
The Invisible Woman
by Claire Tomalin
5 of 5 stars
What's astonishing about Nelly Ternan—daughter of Victorian thespians and a would-be actor herself—is how throughly her contemporaries erased any trace of her from the historical record during the nearly two decades she was mistress to famed author Charles Dickens. In the name of protecting her reputation, Dickens and the Ternans made the young woman virtually invisible to history. The affair was well-known to contemporaries, however; Dickens burned as much correspondence mentioning her as possible, and begged his friends and family to do the same. Even those few records that escaped the purge often refer to the woman only in code, or initials. The pseudonyms Dickens employed to hire houses for his love reveal the lengths to which he was willing to go in order to shield her from the world.
Reconstructing the affair is a challenge for Tomalin in The Invisible Woman, as so much of the documentation a thorough biography requires has been lost or destroyed. Still, working from what traces are left and by filling in with ample historical context, she manages to create a portrait of the woman who caused Dickens famously to separate from his wife. However vivid and convincing a portrayal she manages, it's still shrouded in mystery; Tomalin confesses quite frankly that parts of her narrative are speculation. Her extrapolations are convincingly documented, however, and the biography itself moves along at a swift pace. For lovers of literature—and of literary scandal—The Invisible Woman is a must-read.
Death of a Schoolgirl (The Jane Eyre Chronicles, #1)
by Joanna Campbell Slan
3 of 5 stars
As a general rule I have a soft spot for the literary pastiche, particularly of nineteenth-century novels. When they're done well—Joan Aiken's sequels to Jane Austen come to mind—they not only serve to stimulate memories of why I find the originals so delightful, but to renew my delight in them and in their characters in unexpected and novel ways.
I can't declare that Slan's Death of a Schoolgirl, a sequel to Charlotte Brontë's Jane Eyre, is an altogether unsuccessful pastiche. The highly-readable first few chapters are a convincing approximation of Brontë's style that propel newly-married Jane Rochester toward her promised new career as an amateur detective at a brisk and satisfying pace. When Jane stumbles upon a murder at the finishing school where Mr. Rochester's ward, Adele, has been lodged, however, the book's Jane becomes a different creature from its inspiration. Brontë's Jane Eyre is poised, staunch in the face of adversity, emotional yet determined, and possesses a loquacity born of her vast appetite for reading. Slan's Jane Rochester is a gin-tippling gossip who performs actual spit-takes, allows herself to be mowed over by lesser tyrants than she encountered in her abusive girlhood, is wishy-washy to the point of endangering Adele by not whisking her back home, and who abandons her command of the English language by recording for posterity such sentences as "Oof!"
Her hallucinatory visions of a long-dead Helen from Lowood make me suspect she might do well to step away from that gin bottle, too.
If Jane Rochester were a gifted detective, I might forgive some of the shortcomings in the facsimile. She's no great shakes in that department either, however. Reader, a gentle hint: if your Jane Rochester recognizes early in a book that the cane marks on the backs of several schoolgirls could be the decisive lead in a murder investigation, perhaps she might—you know—actually ask one of the girls about them before, oh, thirty pages before the book's end.
What's left is Brontë Lite. It's more readable and fun than P. D. James' dreadful Death Comes to Pemberley, in which Elizabeth Bennett and Mr. Darcy snooze their way through a Regency-era murder. It's more authentic in reproducing the prose of its inspiration than is Ronald Frame's Havisham, by a long shot. Taken as a lark, it's silly good fun. But the one thing that Charlotte Brontë's Jane never, ever was, is silly.
The Days of Anna Madrigal (Tales of the City, #9)
by Armistead Maupin
5 of 5 stars
Like a whistled melody fading on autumn wind, this last of the Tales of the City series is sweet and elegiac. While its plotlines are neither as many nor as multi-stranded as earlier series entries, what remains is a celebratory ending for many of Maupin's beloved characters as they face their own mortality, seek redemption, and come to terms with their own shortcomings. There's a lovely glow to this last volume; it's as touching as anything the author has ever written.
From Scratch: Inside the Food Network
by Allen Salkin
4 of 5 stars
I'll confess straight up that although I used to enjoy the Food Network's programming a decade ago, when its programs specialized in interesting and engaging talk about food and its preparation, I rarely give the network a view now that gimmicky game show competitions rule its airwaves. In From Scratch, Allen Salkin takes a broad look at the bumpy ride the network has taken over the years since its premiere in 1993. He especially concentrates upon the paradigm shifts that have shifted the network from its instructional roots to a type of lowest-common-denominator programming in which "it was not the network's job to teach or to have a conscience or a memory or to always put something beautiful on the plate . . . the network's prime directive was to sell as many Ginsu knives, boxes of detergent, Corollas, and breath mints as it could for paying advertisers."
The network's lack of both conscience and memory appears throughout its history, as through multiple changes of ownership and direction its talent regularly got the shaft. When Jennifer Paterson of the immensely popular import Two Fat Ladies passed away, the funeral hadn't even been held before Food Network execs were making trans-Atlantic calls to the production company, blunting asking if they simply couldn't find another fat lady to replace the dead one. Chefs responsible for the network's early popularity had their shows canceled for cheaper, louder, less experienced personalities. Longterm stalwarts on the air for over a decade, such as Sara Moulton, found themselves fired without as much as a meeting or telephone call from the network's executives. Emeril Lagasse was stunned when he was suddenly shoved off the air after driving the Food Network's primetime schedule for a decade. David Rosengarten, who found himself iced out of the studios during one of the transitions in power, had been sacked for a good five years when a Food Network producer—unaware he'd once been one of their former bigger celebrities—called him up and said he had good television potential and would he like to try out for The Next Food Network Star? Talk about adding insult to injury.
There's no lack of insider gossip here, either. Salkin is blunt when it comes to dissecting how the channel's gamble to choose personalities over talent has led to a number of Food Network-related scandals over the years, from Robert Irvine's embellished claims to working in the White House and for Britain's royal family, to Ina Garten's publicity flak when she twice refused to allow a Make-A-Wish Foundation child to cook with her, to the infamous bad publicity that Guy Fieri received over his Manhattan eatery, to the more recent Paula Deen scandals.
Though the book is a little sloggy in its early parts before the Food Network really gets off the ground, it's an intense and often exciting read once the studio lights switch on and actual filming begins. As an insider look at the business institution that (depending upon one's perspective) either made the kitchen a national obsession, or else latched onto a zeitgeist at the right time and made its personalities national stars in the process, it's both eye-opening and invaluable.
The Bird's Nest
by Shirley Jackson
5 of 5 stars
As a cartographer of dark landscapes, Shirley Jackson is well known. Her novels The Haunting of Hill House and We Have Always Lived in the Castle are masterpieces not only of spooky-house writing, but of the psychological specters that torment the living. Her ubiquitous short story "The Lottery" upset its original readers with reason, as it good-naturedly pulled back the skin of small-town life and revealed the skeleton of savagery beneath.
Where modern readers sell Jackson short, however, is in her accomplished ease as a humorist; her two domestic memoirs fall out of print with more regularity than her literary novels. It's a pity, because both memoirs are wickedly funny. Jackson's black humor is abundantly on display as well in her 1954 novel The Bird's Nest, a novel exploring the phenomenon of multiple personality. Published roughly simultaneously with the popular non-fiction account The Three Faces of Eve (the movie versions of both books would arrive at the same time, three years later), Jackson fearlessly plumbs the depths of a Elizabeth Richmond's struggle to assemble an integrated self from four distinct and often destructive splintered personalities.
Although the portions of the book devoted to the heroine's perspective are as terrifying as anything Jackson ever wrote, alternate sections are outright funny, and even comically silly. A chunk of the narrative arrives courtesy of Elizabeth's psychiatrist, Dr. Wright—and a more fatuous and pleased-with-himself raconteur has never graced a book's pages since the height of Victorian drollery. His accounts of the practical jokes Elizabeth's four personalities play on each other are an antidote to the grim surrealism of the heroine's inner narrative. Dr. Wright is almost a parody of the know-it-all psychiatrists of The Three Faces of Eve—and (according to Chris Sizemore herself, the subject of Eve's scrutiny) about as ineffective, despite their conviction otherwise. A drinking game could be made out of the number of times the good doctor resigns, or threatens to resign, from his groundbreaking case because of imagined effrontery to his dignity.
Elizabeth's beleaguered aunt, thrown into the deep end of caring for her mentally ill niece, provides a number of comic moments as well. Of particular note is a dryly humorous scene in which she supervises baths for the four personalities, one right after the other. (Spoiler alert: they use all her bath salts.)
Jackson's style is not to spell out the roots of Elizabeth Richmond's psychological trauma in plain language. Readers looking for an easy wrap-up of the causes of this particular multiple personality disorder may be disappointed. Like any good cartographer, however, Jackson provides all the clues to the answers as she maps Elizabeth's inner regressions and fantasies, and relives the girl's fears.
In an age of modern pharmaceuticals, The Bird's Nest's clinical approach might seem quaint and antiquated, but it's a testament to Jackson's equal adroitness with materials both comic and terrifying.
The House of the Stag
by Kage Baker
5 of 5 stars
Though its series predecessor, The Anvil of the World, hewed fairly close to Kage Baker's usual modis operandi of surrounding a fairly sane character with a cast of zanies, The House of the Stag is a far more sober fantasy. Fairytale-like in tone and narrative, its look at two unlikely opposites and the long paths they tread toward a mutual love is more like one of Lois McMaster Bujold's domestic science fiction novels than anything we might have expected from the author of the free-wheeling, absurdist novels of the Company.
The House of the Stag is truly lovely in spots; the protagonists' affection for each other is deeply moving. Although I enjoyed the raucous comedy of Anvil, its successor surpasses it in depth of feeling and sheer imagination.
The All-Girl Filling Station's Last Reunion
by Fannie Flagg
4 of 5 stars
Fannie Flagg's literary output is basically Southern Gothic Lite—and for the most part, that's perfectly okay by me. As a born Southerner myself, I recognize her casts of eccentrics and well-meaning small town folk, and the tight-knit communities against which they strive to establish their own individuality.
The All-Girl Filling Station's Last Reunion doesn't quite approach the rich textures nor the complexity of Flagg's career peaks, but it's a sweet tale pulled off with a bit of authorial misdirection. Long on charm and down-home wit, it's a warm blanket of a read on a chilly day.
The Bird of the River
by Kage Baker
3 of 5 stars
Kage Baker's last novel is as gently meandering as the river upon which it's set . . . and unfortunately, about as soporific.
People of the Book
by Geraldine Brooks
4 of 5 stars
There's always a danger, when an author writes a collection of short stories or vignettes centered around a central theme, that the episodes will vary in quality, with some miles above others. In People of the Book, however, Brooks' forays in a fictional past surrounding a very real historical volume known as the Sarajevo Haggadah are uniformly excellent. Each brief chapter that reaches back into the Haggadah's history is fully realized, tense in the telling, and rich in exploring the emotions of the people who fought to create and preserve this most unusual of documents.
It's a pity, then that the present-day story of a rare book expert that serves to link all the others is really such a dud. What a heavy burden it must be for the book's overarching narrator to be young and comely and not only to know it all but to be right about everything! Juxtaposing her mundane and unpleasant story against those who suffered through the Holocaust and the Spanish Inquisition does them no great service—in fact, I came to dread being yanked back to the conservationist's present-day narrative after being immersed in the book's haunting past. Still, People of the Book is a worthwhile read for the dips into previous centuries alone.
Bab: A Sub-Deb
by Mary Roberts Rinehart
5 of 5 stars
It's awfully tempting to compare Mary Roberts Rinehart's hilarious Bab: A Sub-Deb with the Anita Loos novel that followed in its footsteps in 1926: Gentlemen Prefer Blondes: The Diary of a Professional Lady. Both books feature wildly unreliable narrators whose spelling, to be generous, could make a hapless reader's eyes cross. Both satirize sex and marriage, and society's expectations of women (or lack thereof) in the early twentieth century. Best of all, both are extremely funny.
Loos' Lorelei Lee, however, is infinitely more black at heart: that cloche and those blond tresses disguise a ferocious, almost feral acquisitiveness and a cunning that Machiavelli would envy. Bab, to put it bluntly, is merely a typical seventeen-year-old: ditzy, absent-minded, prone to fancifulness, and apt to stumble when strapping on the metaphorical heels of her elders.
Lorelei must have been Bab-like during her own adolescence. It may be that given nine years to catch up to her literary older sister, Bab might acquire Lorelei's flapper shrewdness . . . but it's doubtful. Rinehart has made Bab sweet-natured at her core, and Bab's unwitting heroism by the book's end renders her grounded in a way her successor would never appreciate. Readers appreciate Lorelei as a force of nature—but we love Bab, for all her faults and airs.
Wilkie Collins: A Life of Sensation
by Andrew Lycett
3 of 5 stars
Andrew Lycett's attempt to frame his biography of Victorian novelist Wilkie Collins as 'a life of sensation' is a bit misleading. As scandalous as Collins' life could be—the dude simultaneously maintained two entirely different households with women, to neither of whom he was married, complete with children—Lycett very much fails to draw the parallels between that life and the novels of sensation for which Collins gained a moderate amount of fame and notoriety. Working with seemingly less personal material, Claire Tomalin managed to elicit more juicy tidbits for two whole biographies of Collins' sometimes friend and consistent better, Charles Dickens, and of Dickens' mistress, Nelly Ternan.
Instead, Lycett commences with a chapter that promises immediately to plunge the reader into a wild and ribald tale of Collins' thoroughly unconventional sex life . . . and then follows through with a standard academic treatise of the life and works of a lesser-known novelist who never fully escaped the shadow cast by Dickens. It's tough to whip up interest in Collins when his biographer can't even invest much enthusiasm in recounting the sensational plots of his novels, much less adequately recount Collins' motivations for his unconventional love life. To be honest, I learned more about Wilkie Collins, the man, from Dan Simmons' fictional Drood.
I suggest that Wilkie Collins: A Life of Sensation be best read as an invitation to a drinking game. Take a shot every time Collins churns out yet another novel of which you've never heard! Take another every time he crabs in his correspondence about a novel's reception! Chug one down every time he and Dickens privately badmouth each other! Take more shots whenever he trots off for a cure for one of his several venereal diseases! You'll be plastered enough in no time to get through the plot descriptions of Collins' endless procession of dreary books.
(Though to be fair, I now do want to read the one with the decapitated floating head.)
Drama High: The Incredible True Story of a Brilliant Teacher, a Struggling Town, and the Magic of Theater
by Michael Sokolove
2 of 5 stars
Lou Volpe, beloved drama instructor of Levittown's acclaimed and award-winning public high school drama program, is very probably a five-star teacher. Former student Michael Sokolove's account of him, however, is definitely not five-star writing.
Sokolove narrates his tale in a breathless, fawning style that attempts to mimic journalistic rigor by employing a full-frontal assault with the eternal present tense. Yet he also sets up the book with so many framing devices (I stopped counting at about five, which is four too many) and leaden digressions into the past that often it's nigh on impossible to tell exactly when its scenes are supposed to be taking place. Overall, his style is more appropriate for a scraping Sports Illustrated profile or a kiddy Tiger Beat puff piece than a serious look at what goes into the the creation of high art beneath a high school proscenium.
It's a pity that Sokolove can't seem to shake his adolescent hero worship of Volpe in order to write something less meandering and groveling. Volpe's theatrical achievements are magical, but his book certainly isn't.
And the Band Played On: Politics, People, and the AIDS Epidemic
by Randy Shilts
3 of 5 stars
Revisiting Randy Shilts' groundbreaking history of the early day of the AIDS epidemic in the United States after my first reading of it some twenty-five years ago was a little bit of an eye-opening experience. I still admire Shilts' month-by-month analysis of how public health officials, the research science industry, the gay population affected most directly by the plague, and the government at both the local and federal level responded—or in most cases, failed to respond—to the burgeoning threat. His almost cinematic scope makes the work eminently readable, while the inherent drama in the ever-increasing numbers of people felled by the virus keeps the focus as tight as any summer action thriller.
I'm struck on this re-read, however, by some of Shilts' uglier and more manipulative stunts while posturing as an objective reporter to the unfolding of events. Sure, he's angry, and he's quick to point fingers and spread blame throughout the book. That stance is understandable—and frankly, there are plenty of people and institutions that deserve blame. When it comes to the gay community in particular, however, Shilts indulges in some incredibly guileful rhetoric to divide that community between the good gays and the disgusting, bad whores who ruined everything for everyone else.
He's not really all that subtle about it, either; the bad gays are not only sluttish bathhouse habitués, but are drawn in broad and villainous strokes as amyl nitrite addicts who all, to a soul, indulge in the vicious sports of fist-fucking and urinating upon each other. (The good gays in the book, in case you wonder, all very chastely are shown to lie next to each other upon their beds without having sex, and if they do, they "make love" after they confess their high school-like "crushes" on each other.) The bad gays populating the bathhouses and dark alleys are all insanely beautiful as well. They may have a "sensual charisma," or may prefer to be "the only charismatic guy in the room," or they're (God help us) “at the top of Manhattan's ziggurat of beauty." In fact, Shilts' biggest villain in the book walks around in chapter after chapter, flipping his hair and twiddling his mustache while smirking and thinking to himself in scenes that are clearly fictionalized (though in an afterword, Shilts claims to have fictionalized nothing) that he's "the prettiest one in the room."
The hyperbole Shilts employs in his obsession with "the royalty of gay beauty and . . . the stars of the homosexual jet set" is weirdly off-putting, this time around; he writes almost from the disgruntled perspective of the ugly kid laughed out of the high school junior prom. Worse yet, his demonization of hair-flipping Gaetan Dugas, the Canadian flight attendant he dubbed "Patient Zero" shows a callous zest for scapegoating instead of any kind of journalistic integrity. It's commonly accepted now that Patient Zero (who may or may not have been Dugas) was not the first person in the U.S. affected by AIDS, nor did he bring it to the country—yet Shilts is all too happy to write scene after scene of Dugas literally leaping out the bathhouse shadows, Boogey Man-style, to frighten its denizens with his Karposi's Sarcoma lesions after he's infected them all.
During the book's publicity tour, Shilts acceded to the publisher's requests to emphasize the Dugas story in his book's publicity; whether enthusiastically or not, he became a willing accessory to the conviction of the dead man without much of a trial. And it's difficult to buy Shilts' tepid disclaimer that "Whether Gaetan Dugas actually was the person who brought AIDS to North America remains a question of debate and is ultimately unanswerable," several hundred pages into the book, when all along Shilts has depicted him relentlessly as the Freddy Kreuger of the Castro.
But then, Shilts is quick to laud those he admires and vilify anyone he finds faintly disagreeable. If someone is angry with public officials and speaks out rashly, and that someone happens to be Larry Kramer, he's lauded as a hero (and has all the good reviews of his play quoted in one big lump). If someone else gets angry and speaks out rashly in pretty much the same way, Shilts feels free to damn him as a "sociopath." In a maddening chapter on some imaginary phenomenon he calls "AIDSpeak," Shilts dismisses as obstructionist and dangerous anyone from the gay community who at any time brought up issues relating to patient confidentiality in testing for HIV, or who worried about conservative demands for quarantining or for mass HIV testing to root homosexuals from their jobs and communities . . . even though those concerns were quite legitimate, and in some ways still are.
Again, as someone who lived through those terrible years myself, I understand Shilts' anger at everyone who delayed AIDS research and relief funds to a suffering population, or whose politicking precluded good public health care. However, I don't think it journalistic, or even professional, to play fast and loose with reputations in the name of telling a good story, while pretending to be neutral—especially with the crystal-clear focus that only comes with hindsight. There was a point late in the book in which Shilts tsk-tsks at the notion that outsiders might mentally divide the gay population into "the fist-fuckers of Folsom Street" and "respectable middle class gays" . . . when that's exactly what he’s done from page one of his epic.
For all of its sweep and its pace and its moments of justified, righteous anger, And the Band Played On apportions its blame not all that even-handedly. It's decidedly unsubtle at choosing its villains, and it rides roughshod over anyone who dares to have been sexual or who has even a passing regard for civil liberties in a time of crisis. His narrative choices are a telling relic from the era he covers, perhaps, but it doesn't make for an entirely impartial historical inquiry.
Brat Farrar
by Josephine Tey
5 of 5 stars
Josephine Tey's mysteries aren't necessarily the most intricately-plotted, nor the most outlandishly fiendish. Nor, as in Brat Farrar, are they always strict mysteries. (If you haven't figured out in the first third of this particular book whodunit, it's either because you aren't paying attention, or are under the assumption that there has to be a twist somewhere down the line. There isn't.) Although a contemporary of Christie in her heyday, her climaxes and resolutions aren't exactly true to the standard mystery-novel form, either—although the title character of this particular novel has a late-game epiphany of who the murderer is and how he accomplished the dirty deed, it's never, ever shared with the reader.
And yet there's something so damned charming about her books. With all of its oddities, Brat Farrar is a gust of bluebell-scented wind straight from one of the most unspoiled English countrysides in literature. Its characters—at least the good 'uns—are genuinely charismatic and amiable. She draws its hero, a reluctant con man who has assumed the identity of a lost heir shortly before he's due to inherit a country estate and its extensive breeding stables, with such love that even when he's committing fraud against a lot of sweet-hearted absolute ducks, one wants to cheer him on. It's an impressive feat.
Also impressive is Tey's ability to give the novel a timeless quality; though published in 1949, it can with very little mental effort be imagined in the nineteen-sixties, or even the present day. Tey's laissez-faire and nonjudgmental attitude toward gay themes seems cheerfully prescient for a book of its era; its occasional strains aren't even relegated to the subtext. Just happily acknowledged, shrugged at, and accepted.
Brat Farrar might frustrate the mystery reader looking for a serious challenge. Yet for lovers of suspense, or horses, or the English countryside, or just plain old good storytelling with winsome characters, the novel's an all-out triple-crown winner.
Cured: How the Berlin Patients Defeated HIV and Forever Changed Medical Science
by Nathalia Holt
4 of 5 stars
The ability to explain complex scientific issues in layman's terms is a rare enough gift. Nathalia Holt's ability to explicate the intricacies of the HIV virus and its workings without condescending to the reader is nothing short of astonishing. In her assay of the various clinical attempts to analyze and develop strategies to rid the virus from the human body—or at least to effect a 'functional cure' for those affected by it—Holt manages to shed light into areas of medicine and biology normally murky to those of us with little exposure to the science of HIV and AIDS. In doing so, she has created a comprehensive and readable survey of current approaches to treatment—and identifies areas in which attention and funding is lacking.
Holt's book is also the only scientific work I've read in which a researcher is romanced by an Arab prince on a white horse. Thumbs up for that alone!
The Museum of Extraordinary Things
by Alice Hoffman
4 of 5 stars
Hoffman's The Museum of Extraordinary Things manages to combine page-turning action with passages of genuinely lovely, lyrical writing. It's a fairy tale of Beaux Arts New York City that occasionally reads as if it were intended to be an easy-listening, lite version of Ragtime with only a portion of actual historical figures to follow.
Although there are portions of the book in which Hoffman seems determined to shoehorn in her research on historical Coney Island and the labor repercussions of the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire, the book is ultimately affecting and a cracking good read.
Monday, June 30, 2014
Saturday, May 24, 2014
Conversations With My Father: Username & Password Edition
ME: Okay, we’re leaving tomorrow morning, so let’s go over your checklist of things you wanted us to do while you were here.
MY FATHER: Sounds good.
ME: Planted garden, check. Trimmed bushes, check. Took you to Bed, Bath, & Beyond. Bought you a Kindle Paperwhite . . . Check. Are you really going to still keep your old Kindle?
MY FATHER: Why in the world would I get rid of a perfectly good Kindle?
ME: Are you going to read the new one and the old one simultaneously?
MY FATHER: No.
ME: You could give it to your sister, or to one of your friends. . . .
MY FATHER: Why would I give away a perfectly good Kindle?
ME: Because you’re going to use the new one more?
MY FATHER: It’s a perfectly good. . . .
ME: Anyway. Bought you a new Kindle. Drove you to where you’re giving a talk next week. Anything else?
MY FATHER: We need to look up my old classmate on the college alumni website.
ME: Okay. That shouldn’t take long. Let me find the website . . . and log in. . . .
MY FATHER: How did you find the website?
ME: I went to Google and I typed in the name of the college and ‘alumni website.’
MY FATHER [making notes}: . . . type in. . . .
ME: Okay, what’s the name of the guy you’re stalking?
MY FATHER: I am not stalking! I am merely curious. . . .
ME: Yes, that’s what stalkers say.
MY FATHER [with dignity]: The last name is Edmunds. The first name is Erik.
ME: Erik Edmunds. Class of 1961. Minneapolis, Minnesota. Is that the one?
MY FATHER: That is indeed the one.
ME: Okay . . . screen grab . . . let me send it . . . all right. Captured and sent to your email. Now I’m going up to bed because tomorrow we. . . .
MY FATHER: Actually, I was hoping you’d show me how to do it so that in the future I could more effectively. . . .
ME: . . . . stalk people yourself.
MY FATHER: I was not. . . .
ME: All right. I will make a profile for you so that you can log in and do it yourself. [I poke at the iPad screen a bit.] Your first name . . . Last name . . . B . . . R . . . I . . .
MY FATHER [helpfully]: C-E. . . .
ME: I know how to spell it . . . address . . . Richmond, Virginia . . . zip code. Class of nineteen . . . sixty-one. Okay. Username and password?
MY FATHER [stares blankly]
ME: You need to create a username and password.
MY FATHER: A ooooser . . . name?
ME: A username. And a password.
MY FATHER: I thought I heard you put in my name.
ME: That was your actual name. You need to come up with a username in order to log into this website.
MY FATHER: A user . . . name?
ME: What would you like to use as a one-word user name?
MY FATHER: Is that like a password?
ME: No, it’s not a password. I said ‘username and password.’ Two different things. Think up a username that you’ll remember.
MY FATHER: Is that like my email?
ME: No. It is not your email.
MY FATHER: What should I choose as a username?
ME: It’s got to be something that you will remember.
MY FATHER: What is the philosophy behind choosing a username?
ME: We are not going to discuss the broad philosophy of choosing usernames. Just pick one.
MY FATHER: What is your username?
ME: It’s . . . no. I’m not playing that game.
MY FATHER: I just wanted to know your username!
ME: It’s a secret.
MY FATHER: If you were to pick a username for me. . . .
ME: Look. This really isn’t supposed to be difficult. Your username can be ‘MrPenguin’ or ‘NPRLover’ or ‘HistoryNut.’ You can use your initials. I don’t care. The database doesn’t care. It is not going to ask your reasons for choosing what you choose. It is not going to question you on your methodology and philosophy of selecting a username. It’s just a username. All you have to do is pick some name so you can user it. Use it, I mean.
MY FATHER: So I don’t need a password?
ME: It’s not the same thing. You will need to pick a password.
MY FATHER [opens his mouth]
ME: Not the same as your email password.
MY FATHER: Oh. How about—
ME: Not the same as your Amazon password.
MY FATHER [dejected]: Oh. Well. What’s your password?
ME [ignoring him]: It says ‘passwords must be at least eight characters in length and contain at least one numeral and one non-numeric character.’
MY FATHER: One numeral—
ME: —and one non-numeric character.
MY FATHER: What’s a non-numeric character
ME: Something that’s not a number.
MY FATHER: Like an asterisk?
ME: Or, you know, a letter.
MY FATHER: Oh! So they want a password with a number and a letter.
ME: Yes.
MY FATHER: B5?
ME: What?
MY FATHER: B5?
ME: Are you calling bingo? Passwords must be at least characters in length. . . .
MY FATHER: What are those on your feet?
ME: What? Sneakers.
MY FATHER: What kind of sneakers?
ME: They’re Converse, why?
MY FATHER: Are you planning on going running?
ME: No.
MY FATHER: Are they fancy Converse?
ME: These are the most beat-up shoes I own. I think I bought them for twenty dollars.
MY FATHER: They look like old-fashioned tennis shoes.
ME: They are. And they have nothing to do with your username and password.
MY FATHER: But what is your. . . .
ME: Never mind.
MY FATHER: What do you mean, never mind?
ME: I mean never mind, I just this second made up a username and password for you.
MY FATHER: Well! We might have discussed it a little, first!
MY FATHER: Sounds good.
ME: Planted garden, check. Trimmed bushes, check. Took you to Bed, Bath, & Beyond. Bought you a Kindle Paperwhite . . . Check. Are you really going to still keep your old Kindle?
MY FATHER: Why in the world would I get rid of a perfectly good Kindle?
ME: Are you going to read the new one and the old one simultaneously?
MY FATHER: No.
ME: You could give it to your sister, or to one of your friends. . . .
MY FATHER: Why would I give away a perfectly good Kindle?
ME: Because you’re going to use the new one more?
MY FATHER: It’s a perfectly good. . . .
ME: Anyway. Bought you a new Kindle. Drove you to where you’re giving a talk next week. Anything else?
MY FATHER: We need to look up my old classmate on the college alumni website.
ME: Okay. That shouldn’t take long. Let me find the website . . . and log in. . . .
MY FATHER: How did you find the website?
ME: I went to Google and I typed in the name of the college and ‘alumni website.’
MY FATHER [making notes}: . . . type in. . . .
ME: Okay, what’s the name of the guy you’re stalking?
MY FATHER: I am not stalking! I am merely curious. . . .
ME: Yes, that’s what stalkers say.
MY FATHER [with dignity]: The last name is Edmunds. The first name is Erik.
ME: Erik Edmunds. Class of 1961. Minneapolis, Minnesota. Is that the one?
MY FATHER: That is indeed the one.
ME: Okay . . . screen grab . . . let me send it . . . all right. Captured and sent to your email. Now I’m going up to bed because tomorrow we. . . .
MY FATHER: Actually, I was hoping you’d show me how to do it so that in the future I could more effectively. . . .
ME: . . . . stalk people yourself.
MY FATHER: I was not. . . .
ME: All right. I will make a profile for you so that you can log in and do it yourself. [I poke at the iPad screen a bit.] Your first name . . . Last name . . . B . . . R . . . I . . .
MY FATHER [helpfully]: C-E. . . .
ME: I know how to spell it . . . address . . . Richmond, Virginia . . . zip code. Class of nineteen . . . sixty-one. Okay. Username and password?
MY FATHER [stares blankly]
ME: You need to create a username and password.
MY FATHER: A ooooser . . . name?
ME: A username. And a password.
MY FATHER: I thought I heard you put in my name.
ME: That was your actual name. You need to come up with a username in order to log into this website.
MY FATHER: A user . . . name?
ME: What would you like to use as a one-word user name?
MY FATHER: Is that like a password?
ME: No, it’s not a password. I said ‘username and password.’ Two different things. Think up a username that you’ll remember.
MY FATHER: Is that like my email?
ME: No. It is not your email.
MY FATHER: What should I choose as a username?
ME: It’s got to be something that you will remember.
MY FATHER: What is the philosophy behind choosing a username?
ME: We are not going to discuss the broad philosophy of choosing usernames. Just pick one.
MY FATHER: What is your username?
ME: It’s . . . no. I’m not playing that game.
MY FATHER: I just wanted to know your username!
ME: It’s a secret.
MY FATHER: If you were to pick a username for me. . . .
ME: Look. This really isn’t supposed to be difficult. Your username can be ‘MrPenguin’ or ‘NPRLover’ or ‘HistoryNut.’ You can use your initials. I don’t care. The database doesn’t care. It is not going to ask your reasons for choosing what you choose. It is not going to question you on your methodology and philosophy of selecting a username. It’s just a username. All you have to do is pick some name so you can user it. Use it, I mean.
MY FATHER: So I don’t need a password?
ME: It’s not the same thing. You will need to pick a password.
MY FATHER [opens his mouth]
ME: Not the same as your email password.
MY FATHER: Oh. How about—
ME: Not the same as your Amazon password.
MY FATHER [dejected]: Oh. Well. What’s your password?
ME [ignoring him]: It says ‘passwords must be at least eight characters in length and contain at least one numeral and one non-numeric character.’
MY FATHER: One numeral—
ME: —and one non-numeric character.
MY FATHER: What’s a non-numeric character
ME: Something that’s not a number.
MY FATHER: Like an asterisk?
ME: Or, you know, a letter.
MY FATHER: Oh! So they want a password with a number and a letter.
ME: Yes.
MY FATHER: B5?
ME: What?
MY FATHER: B5?
ME: Are you calling bingo? Passwords must be at least characters in length. . . .
MY FATHER: What are those on your feet?
ME: What? Sneakers.
MY FATHER: What kind of sneakers?
ME: They’re Converse, why?
MY FATHER: Are you planning on going running?
ME: No.
MY FATHER: Are they fancy Converse?
ME: These are the most beat-up shoes I own. I think I bought them for twenty dollars.
MY FATHER: They look like old-fashioned tennis shoes.
ME: They are. And they have nothing to do with your username and password.
MY FATHER: But what is your. . . .
ME: Never mind.
MY FATHER: What do you mean, never mind?
ME: I mean never mind, I just this second made up a username and password for you.
MY FATHER: Well! We might have discussed it a little, first!
Monday, April 28, 2014
The Mystery of the Haunted Portrait
There’s a haunted portrait hanging in the church next door.
I hope you appreciate the matter-of-fact, almost blasé manner in which I deliver the news. I’m not exactly a novice when it comes to encountering ghosts, however. In fact—and I say this with a considerable amount of modesty—I’m kind of an old hand when it comes to spirits. A spook wrangler, you might even say.
I grew up, of course, on the same ghost stories as everybody else my age. You know the ones. They end with someone shrieking “GIVE ME BACK MY GOLDEN ARM!” or “. . . and when she stepped out of her car, hanging from the door handle was a bloody hook!” These stories use to send a thrill up my spine, particularly when we’d swap them at church youth group overnighters after midnight, or in the long evenings leading up to Halloween. (This would have been in the days before the web, naturally, when we fifth graders didn’t have online gambling and internet porn to keep us occupied.)
But did I believe them? Not whole-heartedly. I believed there was something compelling about the power of a story told by whisper in the dark. I believed we all enjoy the sensation of giggling at the end of a gruesome tale and pinching ourselves to make sure all of our parts were still there. Even at a young age I believed that the world is full of scary things, and that channeling our fears into storytelling was a way to cope with the darkness. But in actual, ectoplasmic, wafting-around harbingers of another world? Listen, a golden arm would’ve had to have weighed a ton. Nah. I didn’t believe.
Not, that is, until the great misadventure of The Rapping Ghost of Williamsburg.
The College of William and Mary had ghost stories. Hoo boy, did they ever. The theater department alone had enough spirits haunting its hallways to have cast all the supernatural scenes in both the original Ghostbusters and its (less original) sequel. The specter of a lonely senior, mowed down by a car before her premiere as Emily in the college production of Our Town, was said to walk the stage of the Phi Beta Kappa Theater, searching for the spotlight she never enjoyed. Upperclassmen in the program passed down to incoming freshmen warnings not to linger alone in the scene shop after dark, where another unidentified spirit would graze the necks of the hapless with an icy-cold kiss. There were dozens more, but they all tended to blend together in a hotpot of spookiness.
I found these stories about as credible as the notion that the pretty male theater majors with perfectly-moussed hair telling them all had ‘girlfriends’ who conveniently went to ‘some other college out of state.’ Nor did I buy the story I heard from others around campus that the cemetery out by the law school had a rapping ghost.
Wait. I can see how easily this story could head down the wrong path and lead only to inevitable disappointment. You’ve now probably got an image in your mind of a hip-hop apparition wearing big ol’ earphones as he hovers over a phantom turntable, scratching rhythmically about how it’s like a jungle sometimes, it makes him wonder how he keeps it six feet under. The Rapping Ghost of Williamsburg was not that kind of rapping ghost.
I wish.
This ghost just lay there quietly in his coffin until midnight, when it would rap three times and—well, that’s all. I’m not even sure there was a story behind it—like some kind of demented Avon Lady denied her chance to make commission in life, attempting to sell that one last case of Skin-So-Soft after her untimely demise. Nope. Kind of boring, actually. And I know you’re probably thinking to yourself, “Oh, but Colonial Williamsburg! The cemetery was probably straight out of Sleepy Hollow with enormous gothic crypts and weeping angels and skulls rolling around on the ground like acorns in autumn, right?” But no. The cemetery by the law school was outside the colonial district. Its grounds were modern and dull and treeless, a grid of marble slabs rendered dull, regimented, and sterile.
One night during my junior year, though, my friends Perry and Melinda and I had been studying for finals in some of our psychology classes out at the law school. Back in the day, smart upperclassmen in the know scorned studying in the Swem Library on the main campus during finals; the law school library a quarter-mile away from the Old Campus was the place to be. The atmosphere was cosmopolitan, the seating was plentiful, and most important of all, I seem to recall they had a snack bar. We missed the bus back, or else stayed after the last return trip to campus. Either way, we decided to return to campus up South Henry Street, past the graveyard.
I don’t know whose bright idea it was to make the detour. We joked about the rapping ghost as we did it, though. Thought it would be ‘fun’ to prove the legend wasn’t real. Had we but known! The cemetery wasn’t lit at night, back then; there weren’t really any streetlights beyond its boundaries to illuminate the paths. The moon’s bright light made the asphalt driveway sparkle as we wended our way along the low, plain tombstones. I remember being in a particularly giddy mood brought on by too much sugar and the prospect of the semester’s end, combined with the silly bravado we all felt.
Then we heard it. Tap-tap-tap. Three rapid, but very distinct knocking sounds. “That was a woodpecker,” Perry said, uncertainly. None of us had really that much experience with woodpeckers, though. We heard it again. Tap-tap-tap. It sounded like someone rapping his knuckles on a wooden door. Which, to our imaginations at that late hour, was close enough to a coffin to make any differences negligible.
Now I can’t say, from a purely empirical standpoint, that it was exactly at midnight that we heard the rapping. (It probably wasn’t.) Nor can I say for certain that the noise wasn’t a woodpecker. Or a tree frog. Or some other fauna of Williamsburg. Or a distant hammer in a house on the other side of the graveyard. All I can really say is that it was late at night, it was very dark, we all heard it, and we all practically crapped our pants trying to clamber over each other and sprint the hell out of that godforsaken place. Then we made a solemn pact never to speak of it again.
Or study at the law school, for that matter.
It wasn’t until we moved to Connecticut that I had my second encounter with ghosts—this time with The Parsonage Kitchen Ghost. I might’ve mentioned that the first-floor flat in which we currently live is in an historic house that used to be the church’s old parsonage. It’s old. Very old. Not so old that staunch old New Englanders probably sat on its front porch drinking Cape Cods while watching the village burn witches on the green across the street, but just about.
Well, very early on in our stay here, I woke up at four-thirty one morning to hear noises in the kitchen. It sounded like a fan, followed by a beeping noise. Craig was snoring beside me, and the cats were both snoozing on the bed. Nobody likes to leave the bed at four-thirty in the morning, particularly to investigate a noise, but I got on my robe and padded down the hallway through the dining room and into the kitchen, where I looked around. Nothing was happening. I went back to bed.
It was maybe two days later that I heard it again. The sound of a fan from across the house. It was very early in the morning, but light enough that I could see. “That,” I said to Craig, waking him up from his sleep, “is the microwave.”
“Okay,” Craig said, then immediately conked out again.
I raced into the kitchen naked, where I saw the microwave oven’s light shining. When I walked through the door, the oven beeped at me and shut down. I opened it up. There was nothing inside. I don’t know why I thought there would be. It’s not as if ghosts need a quick baked potato or a couple of Hot Pockets.
Back in the bedroom, I announced to Craig, “A ghost turned on our microwave.”
“Okay,” Craig mumbled, drool running from the corner of his mouth into the pillow.
“FINE.” I harumphed under the sheets with a flounce. “If you don’t care that a malevolent entity is turning on the microwave and will probably burn down the house, I don’t either.”
The next time it happened, we both heard it. It was still very early in the morning, before dawn, but we were both woken up when we heard the sound of beeping, as if someone were punching a time into the microwave oven’s keypad. Then we heard the oven itself start up with a hum. Both of us ran naked into the kitchen, where the microwave was turning around and lit up. Where normally the time would’ve displayed was a digital mumbo jumbo. I’m not saying it actually read 666 4EVAH upside-down or anything, but I wouldn’t have been surprised.
“It’s the ghost,” I said, as we both stared at it.
“I think it’s just broken,” said Craig.
“Definitely the ghost,” I agreed.
There’s been some dispute ever since over which of us was correct, but both of us agreed it was probably better to dispose of the microwave oven in the dumpster. Sprinkled with, you know, a little holy water. I try to ignore the fact that from time to time still, water glasses in the cupboard over where the microwave used to sit have a tendency to fall out when the doors have been open for a while, even when the glasses been sitting there undisturbed, flat on their bottoms. It’s as if someone is pulling at them. My reflexes are pretty good, though, and so far the poltergeist hasn’t broken a single one.
But this business with the painting, now. That’s just creepy. At the top of the stairs right inside the church office entrance sat, for the longest time, a portrait of a former minister. I’m told it’s haunted. I don’t know why, or with what, or frankly even how a picture can be haunted. Frankly, if I were a spirit, I’d certainly find a better place to park my keister than some garage-sale quality rubbishy daub without much of a view or, for that matter, access to a room with a flat-screen and cable. All I know is that one of the associate ministers told Craig that he was walking after dark through the church auditorium where the portrait now sits and he felt something grabbing at his legs . . . even though there was nobody there with him.
We walk through the church hall after dark all the time, on the way from the parking lot to the back door of our home. At night it’s already dark, echoing, and creepy in there. Knowing there’s a bored haunted minister waiting to grab at my legs doesn’t make me relish the trip any more, let me tell you. I scurry through as quickly as possible, trying not to cast my eyes up the stairs in case I see those in the painting glowing back at me.
Post-mortem leg-pinching still seems like an unusual kind of hobby in which a minister well past his retirement could engage, but hey. Maybe my parsonage ghost could invite him over for a cup of microwaved coffee and they can compare notes sometime.
I hope you appreciate the matter-of-fact, almost blasé manner in which I deliver the news. I’m not exactly a novice when it comes to encountering ghosts, however. In fact—and I say this with a considerable amount of modesty—I’m kind of an old hand when it comes to spirits. A spook wrangler, you might even say.
I grew up, of course, on the same ghost stories as everybody else my age. You know the ones. They end with someone shrieking “GIVE ME BACK MY GOLDEN ARM!” or “. . . and when she stepped out of her car, hanging from the door handle was a bloody hook!” These stories use to send a thrill up my spine, particularly when we’d swap them at church youth group overnighters after midnight, or in the long evenings leading up to Halloween. (This would have been in the days before the web, naturally, when we fifth graders didn’t have online gambling and internet porn to keep us occupied.)
But did I believe them? Not whole-heartedly. I believed there was something compelling about the power of a story told by whisper in the dark. I believed we all enjoy the sensation of giggling at the end of a gruesome tale and pinching ourselves to make sure all of our parts were still there. Even at a young age I believed that the world is full of scary things, and that channeling our fears into storytelling was a way to cope with the darkness. But in actual, ectoplasmic, wafting-around harbingers of another world? Listen, a golden arm would’ve had to have weighed a ton. Nah. I didn’t believe.
Not, that is, until the great misadventure of The Rapping Ghost of Williamsburg.
The College of William and Mary had ghost stories. Hoo boy, did they ever. The theater department alone had enough spirits haunting its hallways to have cast all the supernatural scenes in both the original Ghostbusters and its (less original) sequel. The specter of a lonely senior, mowed down by a car before her premiere as Emily in the college production of Our Town, was said to walk the stage of the Phi Beta Kappa Theater, searching for the spotlight she never enjoyed. Upperclassmen in the program passed down to incoming freshmen warnings not to linger alone in the scene shop after dark, where another unidentified spirit would graze the necks of the hapless with an icy-cold kiss. There were dozens more, but they all tended to blend together in a hotpot of spookiness.
I found these stories about as credible as the notion that the pretty male theater majors with perfectly-moussed hair telling them all had ‘girlfriends’ who conveniently went to ‘some other college out of state.’ Nor did I buy the story I heard from others around campus that the cemetery out by the law school had a rapping ghost.
Wait. I can see how easily this story could head down the wrong path and lead only to inevitable disappointment. You’ve now probably got an image in your mind of a hip-hop apparition wearing big ol’ earphones as he hovers over a phantom turntable, scratching rhythmically about how it’s like a jungle sometimes, it makes him wonder how he keeps it six feet under. The Rapping Ghost of Williamsburg was not that kind of rapping ghost.
I wish.
This ghost just lay there quietly in his coffin until midnight, when it would rap three times and—well, that’s all. I’m not even sure there was a story behind it—like some kind of demented Avon Lady denied her chance to make commission in life, attempting to sell that one last case of Skin-So-Soft after her untimely demise. Nope. Kind of boring, actually. And I know you’re probably thinking to yourself, “Oh, but Colonial Williamsburg! The cemetery was probably straight out of Sleepy Hollow with enormous gothic crypts and weeping angels and skulls rolling around on the ground like acorns in autumn, right?” But no. The cemetery by the law school was outside the colonial district. Its grounds were modern and dull and treeless, a grid of marble slabs rendered dull, regimented, and sterile.
One night during my junior year, though, my friends Perry and Melinda and I had been studying for finals in some of our psychology classes out at the law school. Back in the day, smart upperclassmen in the know scorned studying in the Swem Library on the main campus during finals; the law school library a quarter-mile away from the Old Campus was the place to be. The atmosphere was cosmopolitan, the seating was plentiful, and most important of all, I seem to recall they had a snack bar. We missed the bus back, or else stayed after the last return trip to campus. Either way, we decided to return to campus up South Henry Street, past the graveyard.
I don’t know whose bright idea it was to make the detour. We joked about the rapping ghost as we did it, though. Thought it would be ‘fun’ to prove the legend wasn’t real. Had we but known! The cemetery wasn’t lit at night, back then; there weren’t really any streetlights beyond its boundaries to illuminate the paths. The moon’s bright light made the asphalt driveway sparkle as we wended our way along the low, plain tombstones. I remember being in a particularly giddy mood brought on by too much sugar and the prospect of the semester’s end, combined with the silly bravado we all felt.
Then we heard it. Tap-tap-tap. Three rapid, but very distinct knocking sounds. “That was a woodpecker,” Perry said, uncertainly. None of us had really that much experience with woodpeckers, though. We heard it again. Tap-tap-tap. It sounded like someone rapping his knuckles on a wooden door. Which, to our imaginations at that late hour, was close enough to a coffin to make any differences negligible.
Now I can’t say, from a purely empirical standpoint, that it was exactly at midnight that we heard the rapping. (It probably wasn’t.) Nor can I say for certain that the noise wasn’t a woodpecker. Or a tree frog. Or some other fauna of Williamsburg. Or a distant hammer in a house on the other side of the graveyard. All I can really say is that it was late at night, it was very dark, we all heard it, and we all practically crapped our pants trying to clamber over each other and sprint the hell out of that godforsaken place. Then we made a solemn pact never to speak of it again.
Or study at the law school, for that matter.
It wasn’t until we moved to Connecticut that I had my second encounter with ghosts—this time with The Parsonage Kitchen Ghost. I might’ve mentioned that the first-floor flat in which we currently live is in an historic house that used to be the church’s old parsonage. It’s old. Very old. Not so old that staunch old New Englanders probably sat on its front porch drinking Cape Cods while watching the village burn witches on the green across the street, but just about.
Well, very early on in our stay here, I woke up at four-thirty one morning to hear noises in the kitchen. It sounded like a fan, followed by a beeping noise. Craig was snoring beside me, and the cats were both snoozing on the bed. Nobody likes to leave the bed at four-thirty in the morning, particularly to investigate a noise, but I got on my robe and padded down the hallway through the dining room and into the kitchen, where I looked around. Nothing was happening. I went back to bed.
It was maybe two days later that I heard it again. The sound of a fan from across the house. It was very early in the morning, but light enough that I could see. “That,” I said to Craig, waking him up from his sleep, “is the microwave.”
“Okay,” Craig said, then immediately conked out again.
I raced into the kitchen naked, where I saw the microwave oven’s light shining. When I walked through the door, the oven beeped at me and shut down. I opened it up. There was nothing inside. I don’t know why I thought there would be. It’s not as if ghosts need a quick baked potato or a couple of Hot Pockets.
Back in the bedroom, I announced to Craig, “A ghost turned on our microwave.”
“Okay,” Craig mumbled, drool running from the corner of his mouth into the pillow.
“FINE.” I harumphed under the sheets with a flounce. “If you don’t care that a malevolent entity is turning on the microwave and will probably burn down the house, I don’t either.”
The next time it happened, we both heard it. It was still very early in the morning, before dawn, but we were both woken up when we heard the sound of beeping, as if someone were punching a time into the microwave oven’s keypad. Then we heard the oven itself start up with a hum. Both of us ran naked into the kitchen, where the microwave was turning around and lit up. Where normally the time would’ve displayed was a digital mumbo jumbo. I’m not saying it actually read 666 4EVAH upside-down or anything, but I wouldn’t have been surprised.
“It’s the ghost,” I said, as we both stared at it.
“I think it’s just broken,” said Craig.
“Definitely the ghost,” I agreed.
There’s been some dispute ever since over which of us was correct, but both of us agreed it was probably better to dispose of the microwave oven in the dumpster. Sprinkled with, you know, a little holy water. I try to ignore the fact that from time to time still, water glasses in the cupboard over where the microwave used to sit have a tendency to fall out when the doors have been open for a while, even when the glasses been sitting there undisturbed, flat on their bottoms. It’s as if someone is pulling at them. My reflexes are pretty good, though, and so far the poltergeist hasn’t broken a single one.
But this business with the painting, now. That’s just creepy. At the top of the stairs right inside the church office entrance sat, for the longest time, a portrait of a former minister. I’m told it’s haunted. I don’t know why, or with what, or frankly even how a picture can be haunted. Frankly, if I were a spirit, I’d certainly find a better place to park my keister than some garage-sale quality rubbishy daub without much of a view or, for that matter, access to a room with a flat-screen and cable. All I know is that one of the associate ministers told Craig that he was walking after dark through the church auditorium where the portrait now sits and he felt something grabbing at his legs . . . even though there was nobody there with him.
We walk through the church hall after dark all the time, on the way from the parking lot to the back door of our home. At night it’s already dark, echoing, and creepy in there. Knowing there’s a bored haunted minister waiting to grab at my legs doesn’t make me relish the trip any more, let me tell you. I scurry through as quickly as possible, trying not to cast my eyes up the stairs in case I see those in the painting glowing back at me.
Post-mortem leg-pinching still seems like an unusual kind of hobby in which a minister well past his retirement could engage, but hey. Maybe my parsonage ghost could invite him over for a cup of microwaved coffee and they can compare notes sometime.
Thursday, April 10, 2014
The Real (Dream) World
After a half-century of falling asleep at night and managing to wake up again in the mornings, I’ve finally become an expert on my dreams. I don’t always comprehend them, mind you—though there are times I understand them with more clarity than I’d like to admit. But I’ve reached a jaded point at which I can rummage through my nighttime musings over breakfast and think to myself, “Oh, it was one of those.”
My sick dreams, for example. No, not the ones involving a pony tail and a whip. I mean the dreams I have when I’m actually ill, perverts. They’re always mathematical in nature, or else involve me having to solve some kind of complicated puzzle. I’ll run imaginary math problems in my head for what seems like hours, or attempt to fit into a finite puzzle box a limited number of complicated shapes. Then I’ll start all over again. And over again. And over some more. I’ve actually gotten to the point at which if I find myself having dreams involving vast quantities of sums or complicated problem-solving that never seems to end, I’ll regard it as a harbinger of an illness to come and I’ll wake myself up, get out of bed, pop a couple of aspirin, and keep an eye out for cold symptoms over the next couple of days.
Then there are my reality show dreams. Although my nighttime fantasies usually have about as much of a life as a soap bubble, the reality show dreams exist in some kind of persistent alternate universe in which I’ve been a television star several times over. It all started in the mid-nineteen-nineties, when I started having recurring dreams about having appeared in the first season of MTV’s The Real World. Oh yes. I was part of the original cast! I lived in New York City with them for several months during filming. Heather was my best friend; we were inseparable during those long-vanished days. Julie and I got into some kind of feud right at the beginning and didn’t really have much to do with each other, even though Heather was trying to get us to reconcile. Eric Nies and I would stay up late at night and play cards.
But here’s the thing about that cruel experience, which has been verified time after time in that weirdly persistent alternate world, while I’ve slumbered: after I packed up my bags and moved back to Detroit to resume my life, I turned on the TV when the final cut of the show started to make its premiere and discovered that I’d been utterly edited out. The Real World wasn’t the true story (troooooue storrrrry!) of seven strangers picked to live in a house and have their lives taped. IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE EIGHT. Apparently I was just too BORING to make the final show. Ooo girl, Heather was upset about it too, when we all found out. But it was done, and there was no turning back: I was just an odd little footnote to those in the know, the eighth stranger left on the cutting room floor while everyone else went on to make history.
Like I said, sometimes I can understand my dreams more than I care to admit, and it doesn’t take a genius to figure out this one.
However, because of my small notoriety, in my alternate universe I managed to get cast on a couple of other dream reality TV shows over the years. The first was Survivor, in which I managed to be the first male contestant to make it through the season without having ever removed his shirt, yo. Because that’s the way I play, y’all. I came in sixth place, having been voted off the island when one of my alliances went sour. However, in a subsequent Survivor All-Stars I managed to place third, which was fairly respectable. The gigs on Survivor directly led to my appearance on The Amazing Race, about five years ago. In the persistent dream universe there’s a very popular clip (over 3 million views on dream YouTube) in which I am in a Tokyo subway and say to Craig, who was racing with me:
Just don’t ask me where we placed, yet. The season’s apparently not over.
Of all my recurring dreams, though, the two most vivid have to do with my school days. The first involves a persistent reality in which it’s discovered that I missed a couple of credits in high school, not only invalidating my high school diploma, but my college and graduate degrees as well—unless, in the inexorable absurdity of dream logic, I go back to my old high school as an adult and matriculate again. You’d think that’d be nightmare enough, but there’s always a point in this dream in which finally the school day is over and I’m anxious to get home, but it dawns on me that I no longer remember the number of my school bus. This dream always ends with me not only trying to race from the back of the school to get to the school busses on time (apparently the lack of a math credit has invalidated my driver’s license as well, I guess), but trying to find the one bus among dozens that will take me home again and not leave me stranded.
Then finally is my most persistent recurring dream. In it, I’m usually an adult. Sometimes I’m younger again. I’m involved in a play. Sometimes it’s a play in which I actually appeared in my waking life, either from college or middle school. Sometimes it’s a play I’ve never seen. The point of the dream is that I’m inadequately prepared, and due to step onto the stage very, very soon. There are times in these dreams in which I’ve never seen the play’s script, and it’s floating around backstage always just out of reach so that I don’t have the ability to review it; in other instances I’ve got a vague memory of the lines I used to have, but I don’t at all remember my cues, or all the details. I’m always in a panic in these dreams. Will the lines come back to me? Will I just have to wing it? Or will I freeze and be exposed as a charlatan to the audience just on the other side of the footlights, staring at me?
I was thinking about this last dream in particular, a week ago. Craig and I accompanied my friend and former college roommate Eric to a local production of Gilbert and Sullivan’s The Pirates of Penzance. Eric had been involved with the troupe in years past; like the good supporter of the arts he is, he wanted to make an appearance in the audience in order to visit old chums and evaluate just how far they’d fallen since his departure. The production itself was fine. The woman playing Mabel was terrific. The fellow playing Frederic had a weird and awesome tendency, when he wasn’t singing his own parts, of very clearly mouthing the words of everyone else’s songs while onstage. Watching him broadly articulate the consonants of “Poor Wand’ring One” with his lips while Mabel was warbling away made him look like a master ventriloquist.
But there was one woman in the cast who was utterly out of her element. She looked as if she’d been pressed into service mere minutes before the show—like she’d been pulled into the auditorium parking lot to drop off her kids at the soccer field nearby and had been kidnapped, stuffed into leg o’mutton sleeves and a bonnet, and forced onstage in some kind of perform-this-goddamn-operetta-or-we’ll-kill-your-family-and-little-dog-too hostage situation. Her eyes had the wide look of terror of someone who absolutely had no idea what she was doing. When she danced and sang, it wasn’t merely with her eyes glued to her feet as amateurs in community theater sometimes do; she was absolutely and utterly clueless about what she was supposed to be doing at any and every point of the production.
During “Climbing Over Rocky Mountain,” for example, her increasingly-panicky inner thoughts were projected all over her face as plainly as the opening credits of Star Wars on a giant screen. Do I walk forward? She’s walking forward. I’ll walk forward. Not too far forward. Okay. Are we swaying? I guess we’re sway. I’ll sway. Shit! We stopped swaying! Is this one of those things where we join hands and swing our arms? Okay. I’ll grab those hands on either side of . . . SHIT! Hands back down! Hands back down! Did anyone see that? OH MY GOD AM I SUPPOSED TO BE SPINNING MY UMBRELLA?
Craig and I were in tears and hysterics. Eric is too cultured and highbrow to notice these things. He’s basically Downton Abbey’s Dowager Countess steadfastly refusing to comment during high tea upon the fact that a footman’s next-to-bottom button has a fleck of tarnish.
For two hours that poor woman looked like the proverbial deer in the headlights. Even though Craig and I both were helplessly giggling over her discomfort, I felt for her. Every single moment of her distress took me back to those silly dreams of mine in which I’m wearing some foppish Restoration costume or the rags of some old man, and I’m trying to chase down a copy of the script so I can figure out what the heck I’m supposed to be doing before I make a fool of myself in front of an audience.
It’ll be just desserts, next time I enter one of my persistent dream universes, that to atone for my blatant and unrepentant schadenfreude over that poor woman’s stage fright, I’ll be edited right out of that The Real World: New York original cast reunion show.
My sick dreams, for example. No, not the ones involving a pony tail and a whip. I mean the dreams I have when I’m actually ill, perverts. They’re always mathematical in nature, or else involve me having to solve some kind of complicated puzzle. I’ll run imaginary math problems in my head for what seems like hours, or attempt to fit into a finite puzzle box a limited number of complicated shapes. Then I’ll start all over again. And over again. And over some more. I’ve actually gotten to the point at which if I find myself having dreams involving vast quantities of sums or complicated problem-solving that never seems to end, I’ll regard it as a harbinger of an illness to come and I’ll wake myself up, get out of bed, pop a couple of aspirin, and keep an eye out for cold symptoms over the next couple of days.
Then there are my reality show dreams. Although my nighttime fantasies usually have about as much of a life as a soap bubble, the reality show dreams exist in some kind of persistent alternate universe in which I’ve been a television star several times over. It all started in the mid-nineteen-nineties, when I started having recurring dreams about having appeared in the first season of MTV’s The Real World. Oh yes. I was part of the original cast! I lived in New York City with them for several months during filming. Heather was my best friend; we were inseparable during those long-vanished days. Julie and I got into some kind of feud right at the beginning and didn’t really have much to do with each other, even though Heather was trying to get us to reconcile. Eric Nies and I would stay up late at night and play cards.
But here’s the thing about that cruel experience, which has been verified time after time in that weirdly persistent alternate world, while I’ve slumbered: after I packed up my bags and moved back to Detroit to resume my life, I turned on the TV when the final cut of the show started to make its premiere and discovered that I’d been utterly edited out. The Real World wasn’t the true story (troooooue storrrrry!) of seven strangers picked to live in a house and have their lives taped. IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE EIGHT. Apparently I was just too BORING to make the final show. Ooo girl, Heather was upset about it too, when we all found out. But it was done, and there was no turning back: I was just an odd little footnote to those in the know, the eighth stranger left on the cutting room floor while everyone else went on to make history.
Like I said, sometimes I can understand my dreams more than I care to admit, and it doesn’t take a genius to figure out this one.
However, because of my small notoriety, in my alternate universe I managed to get cast on a couple of other dream reality TV shows over the years. The first was Survivor, in which I managed to be the first male contestant to make it through the season without having ever removed his shirt, yo. Because that’s the way I play, y’all. I came in sixth place, having been voted off the island when one of my alliances went sour. However, in a subsequent Survivor All-Stars I managed to place third, which was fairly respectable. The gigs on Survivor directly led to my appearance on The Amazing Race, about five years ago. In the persistent dream universe there’s a very popular clip (over 3 million views on dream YouTube) in which I am in a Tokyo subway and say to Craig, who was racing with me:
ME: Which way are we supposed to go?We finished fifth. It’s because of the popularity of that clip that within the last three months we were cast in the dream version of The Amazing Race All-Stars, and at least once a show the editors include a little flashback to our most popular moment. And believe you me, since we’re savvy about why we were invited back, we play up the comedy.
HIM (pointing south): I’m pretty sure we’re supposed to head this way.
ME: Are you ‘pretty sure’ or ‘one hundred percent sure’?
HIM: I’m one hundred percent sure.
ME (heading north instead): Okay. Then we’re going this way.
Just don’t ask me where we placed, yet. The season’s apparently not over.
Of all my recurring dreams, though, the two most vivid have to do with my school days. The first involves a persistent reality in which it’s discovered that I missed a couple of credits in high school, not only invalidating my high school diploma, but my college and graduate degrees as well—unless, in the inexorable absurdity of dream logic, I go back to my old high school as an adult and matriculate again. You’d think that’d be nightmare enough, but there’s always a point in this dream in which finally the school day is over and I’m anxious to get home, but it dawns on me that I no longer remember the number of my school bus. This dream always ends with me not only trying to race from the back of the school to get to the school busses on time (apparently the lack of a math credit has invalidated my driver’s license as well, I guess), but trying to find the one bus among dozens that will take me home again and not leave me stranded.
Then finally is my most persistent recurring dream. In it, I’m usually an adult. Sometimes I’m younger again. I’m involved in a play. Sometimes it’s a play in which I actually appeared in my waking life, either from college or middle school. Sometimes it’s a play I’ve never seen. The point of the dream is that I’m inadequately prepared, and due to step onto the stage very, very soon. There are times in these dreams in which I’ve never seen the play’s script, and it’s floating around backstage always just out of reach so that I don’t have the ability to review it; in other instances I’ve got a vague memory of the lines I used to have, but I don’t at all remember my cues, or all the details. I’m always in a panic in these dreams. Will the lines come back to me? Will I just have to wing it? Or will I freeze and be exposed as a charlatan to the audience just on the other side of the footlights, staring at me?
I was thinking about this last dream in particular, a week ago. Craig and I accompanied my friend and former college roommate Eric to a local production of Gilbert and Sullivan’s The Pirates of Penzance. Eric had been involved with the troupe in years past; like the good supporter of the arts he is, he wanted to make an appearance in the audience in order to visit old chums and evaluate just how far they’d fallen since his departure. The production itself was fine. The woman playing Mabel was terrific. The fellow playing Frederic had a weird and awesome tendency, when he wasn’t singing his own parts, of very clearly mouthing the words of everyone else’s songs while onstage. Watching him broadly articulate the consonants of “Poor Wand’ring One” with his lips while Mabel was warbling away made him look like a master ventriloquist.
But there was one woman in the cast who was utterly out of her element. She looked as if she’d been pressed into service mere minutes before the show—like she’d been pulled into the auditorium parking lot to drop off her kids at the soccer field nearby and had been kidnapped, stuffed into leg o’mutton sleeves and a bonnet, and forced onstage in some kind of perform-this-goddamn-operetta-or-we’ll-kill-your-family-and-little-dog-too hostage situation. Her eyes had the wide look of terror of someone who absolutely had no idea what she was doing. When she danced and sang, it wasn’t merely with her eyes glued to her feet as amateurs in community theater sometimes do; she was absolutely and utterly clueless about what she was supposed to be doing at any and every point of the production.
During “Climbing Over Rocky Mountain,” for example, her increasingly-panicky inner thoughts were projected all over her face as plainly as the opening credits of Star Wars on a giant screen. Do I walk forward? She’s walking forward. I’ll walk forward. Not too far forward. Okay. Are we swaying? I guess we’re sway. I’ll sway. Shit! We stopped swaying! Is this one of those things where we join hands and swing our arms? Okay. I’ll grab those hands on either side of . . . SHIT! Hands back down! Hands back down! Did anyone see that? OH MY GOD AM I SUPPOSED TO BE SPINNING MY UMBRELLA?
Craig and I were in tears and hysterics. Eric is too cultured and highbrow to notice these things. He’s basically Downton Abbey’s Dowager Countess steadfastly refusing to comment during high tea upon the fact that a footman’s next-to-bottom button has a fleck of tarnish.
For two hours that poor woman looked like the proverbial deer in the headlights. Even though Craig and I both were helplessly giggling over her discomfort, I felt for her. Every single moment of her distress took me back to those silly dreams of mine in which I’m wearing some foppish Restoration costume or the rags of some old man, and I’m trying to chase down a copy of the script so I can figure out what the heck I’m supposed to be doing before I make a fool of myself in front of an audience.
It’ll be just desserts, next time I enter one of my persistent dream universes, that to atone for my blatant and unrepentant schadenfreude over that poor woman’s stage fright, I’ll be edited right out of that The Real World: New York original cast reunion show.
Sunday, April 6, 2014
Conversations with My Father: The Great French Fry Boycott of 2014 Edition
MY FATHER: I’m glad you called. I was going to call you to tell you about my boycott.
ME: Oh dear. What are you boycotting?
MY FATHER: Your favorite restaurant.
ME: What in the world do you think is my favorite restaurant?
MY FATHER: It’s your favorite restaurant. You tell me.
ME: A restaurant that you would visit? Gosh. I don’t know. Is it that Thai restaurant we go to when I visit Richmond?
MY FATHER: No! I like that one.
ME: That barbecue sandwich place we tried that serves Cheerwine?
MY FATHER [with scorn]: No.
ME: My favorite restaurant? I admit, you’ve stumped me. All the restaurants I like are up here.
MY FATHER: Red Robin.
ME: Red Robin?! Red Robin is not my favorite restaurant.
MY FATHER: Don’t you want to know why I’m boycotting it?
ME: I could write down the names of a hundred restaurants and I wouldn’t even place Red Robin remotely close to. . . .
MY FATHER: I said, don’t you want to know why I’m boycotting it?
ME: I mean, we went there once, but I can’t imagine I said anything that could possibly have given you any indication that it was one of my favorite. . . .
MY FATHER: ANYWAY.
ME [sighing]: Go on.
MY FATHER: I went and had dinner there the other day. And do you know how they served the fries?
ME: Vertically.
MY FATHER: They had them in a fancy ring that looked like a fancy napkin holder. . . .
ME: Yes, vertically. Craig and I had lunch there a few months ago at a mall and that’s how they served them.
MY FATHER [outraged]: . . . and they were stood up on their ENDS.
ME: Vertically.
MY FATHER: Vertically! Did you say that?
ME: Several times. So you’re boycotting Red Robin because they served their French fries vertically?
MY FATHER: They used to serve them lying down, like normal fries.
ME: I’m . . . sorry? You know, you are allowed to take off the ring and allow them to lie down flat.
MY FATHER: But then they go in different directions.
ME: In a recent ruling, the U.S. Supreme Court decided unanimously that it was constitutional for Red Robin patrons to align their fries in any direction they want.
MY FATHER: But the real problem. . . .
ME: Oh good, there’s more.
MY FATHER: . . . the real problem is that there aren’t as many as there used to be. The portions are smaller.
ME: But Red Robin is the place where you can have as many servings of fries as you want. Bottomless fries. It’s in all their ads.
MY FATHER: Yes, but.
ME: Yes, but, as in yes, but all you have to do is ask the wait person for more?
MY FATHER: No. Yes, but as in yes, but then I have to hurry and eat them all before I can ask for more, and then I have to wait for them.
ME: Why is that a problem? You don’t have to wait. Grab the waiter when you’re down to the last two or three and they’ll have them out to you by the time you’re done. It’s not a big deal.
MY FATHER: It is a big deal! If you ask for more before you’re finished, the waiter thinks you’re trying to be greedy and take the second portion home.
ME: But . . . but they offer you bottomless fries.
MY FATHER: From an economic standpoint it would be ruinous if everyone ordered extra fries just so they could take the second portion home.
ME: If it were that ruinous, they wouldn’t offer their patrons an extra fifteen cents’ worth of fries.
MY FATHER [loftily]: You know nothing of economics.
ME: So if theoretically the waiter brought you more fries, would you immediately ask him to box them up so you could take them home?
MY FATHER [offended]: No! I’d eat what I wanted.
ME: Okay then!
MY FATHER: And then take the rest home.
ME: I . . . I . . . I honestly don’t know what to say. Why do you care what the waiter thinks, anyway?
MY FATHER: The portions used to be bigger.
ME: Okay. When the portions were bigger, did you ever order more fries?
MY FATHER [even more offended]: I don’t need to eat that many fries!
ME: So you should be happy the portions are smaller! Good god, man!
MY FATHER [with affronted dignity]: This is a very serious boycott and you are deliberately belittling my problem.
ME: You are correct.
MY FATHER: I’m correct? That this is a very serious boycott?
ME: No. That I’m deliberately belittling your problem.
ME: Oh dear. What are you boycotting?
MY FATHER: Your favorite restaurant.
ME: What in the world do you think is my favorite restaurant?
MY FATHER: It’s your favorite restaurant. You tell me.
ME: A restaurant that you would visit? Gosh. I don’t know. Is it that Thai restaurant we go to when I visit Richmond?
MY FATHER: No! I like that one.
ME: That barbecue sandwich place we tried that serves Cheerwine?
MY FATHER [with scorn]: No.
ME: My favorite restaurant? I admit, you’ve stumped me. All the restaurants I like are up here.
MY FATHER: Red Robin.
ME: Red Robin?! Red Robin is not my favorite restaurant.
MY FATHER: Don’t you want to know why I’m boycotting it?
ME: I could write down the names of a hundred restaurants and I wouldn’t even place Red Robin remotely close to. . . .
MY FATHER: I said, don’t you want to know why I’m boycotting it?
ME: I mean, we went there once, but I can’t imagine I said anything that could possibly have given you any indication that it was one of my favorite. . . .
MY FATHER: ANYWAY.
ME [sighing]: Go on.
MY FATHER: I went and had dinner there the other day. And do you know how they served the fries?
ME: Vertically.
MY FATHER: They had them in a fancy ring that looked like a fancy napkin holder. . . .
ME: Yes, vertically. Craig and I had lunch there a few months ago at a mall and that’s how they served them.
MY FATHER [outraged]: . . . and they were stood up on their ENDS.
ME: Vertically.
MY FATHER: Vertically! Did you say that?
ME: Several times. So you’re boycotting Red Robin because they served their French fries vertically?
MY FATHER: They used to serve them lying down, like normal fries.
ME: I’m . . . sorry? You know, you are allowed to take off the ring and allow them to lie down flat.
MY FATHER: But then they go in different directions.
ME: In a recent ruling, the U.S. Supreme Court decided unanimously that it was constitutional for Red Robin patrons to align their fries in any direction they want.
MY FATHER: But the real problem. . . .
ME: Oh good, there’s more.
MY FATHER: . . . the real problem is that there aren’t as many as there used to be. The portions are smaller.
ME: But Red Robin is the place where you can have as many servings of fries as you want. Bottomless fries. It’s in all their ads.
MY FATHER: Yes, but.
ME: Yes, but, as in yes, but all you have to do is ask the wait person for more?
MY FATHER: No. Yes, but as in yes, but then I have to hurry and eat them all before I can ask for more, and then I have to wait for them.
ME: Why is that a problem? You don’t have to wait. Grab the waiter when you’re down to the last two or three and they’ll have them out to you by the time you’re done. It’s not a big deal.
MY FATHER: It is a big deal! If you ask for more before you’re finished, the waiter thinks you’re trying to be greedy and take the second portion home.
ME: But . . . but they offer you bottomless fries.
MY FATHER: From an economic standpoint it would be ruinous if everyone ordered extra fries just so they could take the second portion home.
ME: If it were that ruinous, they wouldn’t offer their patrons an extra fifteen cents’ worth of fries.
MY FATHER [loftily]: You know nothing of economics.
ME: So if theoretically the waiter brought you more fries, would you immediately ask him to box them up so you could take them home?
MY FATHER [offended]: No! I’d eat what I wanted.
ME: Okay then!
MY FATHER: And then take the rest home.
ME: I . . . I . . . I honestly don’t know what to say. Why do you care what the waiter thinks, anyway?
MY FATHER: The portions used to be bigger.
ME: Okay. When the portions were bigger, did you ever order more fries?
MY FATHER [even more offended]: I don’t need to eat that many fries!
ME: So you should be happy the portions are smaller! Good god, man!
MY FATHER [with affronted dignity]: This is a very serious boycott and you are deliberately belittling my problem.
ME: You are correct.
MY FATHER: I’m correct? That this is a very serious boycott?
ME: No. That I’m deliberately belittling your problem.
Monday, March 31, 2014
The Fourth Great Book Purge
I must take a moment and murmur a few words about The Fourth Great Book Purge.
The First Great Book Purge took place sometime around the turn of the millennium, when I winnowed by half thousands of volumes from my home library. Its less ruthless sequel took place in 2010, when we learned that we were moving away from Michigan and our real estate agent firmly suggested that I pack up my books and hide them if I expected anyone even to consider buying our house. Apparently the whole ‘learned former academic gone wild’ decor thing doesn’t play well in the Midwest.
The Third Great Book Purge took place two years ago, when all my books were still in storage and didn’t seem ever to be coming out, and I decided to get rid of all the volumes I’d already replaced with electronic editions. Writing about it afforded all my acquaintances the opportunity to assert I was a heathen and that nothing could replace the smell and feel of a real live book with real live pages made from real dead trees. I also had to withstand all manner of haughty statements about how electronic versions of books made literature as disposable and trivial as Wikipedia articles flickering upon the electron tube—which makes about as much sense as saying books are disposable and trivial because, like The National Enquirer or TV Guide, they’re printed on paper, but whatever. All I know is that I have over fifteen hundred books on my iPad and bitches, it doesn’t weigh any more than it did when I bought the damned thing.
I embarked on The Fourth Great Book Purge this month, when finally I got to unpack everything we’d hidden away in boxes four years ago. Of all the purges, it was probably the most ruthless. In the original book purge I was throwing away a lot of junk that I’d accumulated during grad school. It didn’t mean anything to toss a little-browsed volume on images of courtly love in The Canterbury Tales, simply because I hadn’t cracked the spine since ye olde medieval literature classes and I wasn’t likely to need it ever again. I love Robert Browning, but even a dozen years ago I could find his works online if I really had a hankering for them. What I got rid of back then was dross. The stuff that I still had mostly meant something. Getting rid of it was tougher.
But you know, even a lot of that could go. I didn’t mind letting go of the lesser novels of Fay Weldon, much as I love her style of writing; the really good stuff I already had electronically, and what was left didn’t reach her giddiest heights. I’ve always had a sentimental soft spot for the novels of E. H. Young, though for the life of me I couldn’t tell you the plots of any one of her novels, it’s been so long. Practicality won over sentiment, in that case. Ditto for the sunny country novels of Miss Read. When it’s possible to sum up the frantic buzz of activity in one of Miss Read’s slender two-hundred page novels as Gentle spinster schoolteacher bikes to her schoolhouse in a country village, helps a young lad with his sweater, then has tea and cakes with the vicar before going to bed, perhaps it’s just best to concede that the only reason I kept them around is that they were a favorite of my mother’s. And my mother isn’t around to read them.
I used to have a bookcase full of cookery books. I now have a single shelf. I used to have a very large bookcase dedicated solely to paperback novels; I had to lay them in four horizontal stacks across, three stacks deep on all five shelves to accommodate them all. That’d be sixty stacks of paperbacks alone, not counting the ones I crammed along the bookcase’s edges. I now have five little stacks of paperbacks that occupy two-thirds of a single shelf. In fact, every book I own fits in two bookcases, and the shelves are still so sparse that there’s plenty of room for artwork, picture frames, glass work, and baskets.
A casual visitor might inspect my shelves and walk away thinking that the only authors in whom I’m interested are Patrick Dennis and E. F. Benson, with minor flirtations with Ruth McKenney and John Dennis Fitzgerald. Maybe it’s true. The first three of those four are a big influence on my writing style, after all.
I have the books I want, though. If I accumulate a few more, I have space for them—which are words I haven’t always been able to say. If I shed some as they gradually come into public domain or as electronic versions are made . . . well, my iPad still won’t get any heavier.
(I should note that at no point did I get rid of any copies of my books. I probably have more author’s copies of my own novels than I have books by other people, at this point. They occupy their own shelves in the bedroom. I have a paranoid suspicion that they multiply like rabbits when I’m sleeping. I’m probably right, too—but let them breed, baby.)
The First Great Book Purge took place sometime around the turn of the millennium, when I winnowed by half thousands of volumes from my home library. Its less ruthless sequel took place in 2010, when we learned that we were moving away from Michigan and our real estate agent firmly suggested that I pack up my books and hide them if I expected anyone even to consider buying our house. Apparently the whole ‘learned former academic gone wild’ decor thing doesn’t play well in the Midwest.
The Third Great Book Purge took place two years ago, when all my books were still in storage and didn’t seem ever to be coming out, and I decided to get rid of all the volumes I’d already replaced with electronic editions. Writing about it afforded all my acquaintances the opportunity to assert I was a heathen and that nothing could replace the smell and feel of a real live book with real live pages made from real dead trees. I also had to withstand all manner of haughty statements about how electronic versions of books made literature as disposable and trivial as Wikipedia articles flickering upon the electron tube—which makes about as much sense as saying books are disposable and trivial because, like The National Enquirer or TV Guide, they’re printed on paper, but whatever. All I know is that I have over fifteen hundred books on my iPad and bitches, it doesn’t weigh any more than it did when I bought the damned thing.
I embarked on The Fourth Great Book Purge this month, when finally I got to unpack everything we’d hidden away in boxes four years ago. Of all the purges, it was probably the most ruthless. In the original book purge I was throwing away a lot of junk that I’d accumulated during grad school. It didn’t mean anything to toss a little-browsed volume on images of courtly love in The Canterbury Tales, simply because I hadn’t cracked the spine since ye olde medieval literature classes and I wasn’t likely to need it ever again. I love Robert Browning, but even a dozen years ago I could find his works online if I really had a hankering for them. What I got rid of back then was dross. The stuff that I still had mostly meant something. Getting rid of it was tougher.
But you know, even a lot of that could go. I didn’t mind letting go of the lesser novels of Fay Weldon, much as I love her style of writing; the really good stuff I already had electronically, and what was left didn’t reach her giddiest heights. I’ve always had a sentimental soft spot for the novels of E. H. Young, though for the life of me I couldn’t tell you the plots of any one of her novels, it’s been so long. Practicality won over sentiment, in that case. Ditto for the sunny country novels of Miss Read. When it’s possible to sum up the frantic buzz of activity in one of Miss Read’s slender two-hundred page novels as Gentle spinster schoolteacher bikes to her schoolhouse in a country village, helps a young lad with his sweater, then has tea and cakes with the vicar before going to bed, perhaps it’s just best to concede that the only reason I kept them around is that they were a favorite of my mother’s. And my mother isn’t around to read them.
I used to have a bookcase full of cookery books. I now have a single shelf. I used to have a very large bookcase dedicated solely to paperback novels; I had to lay them in four horizontal stacks across, three stacks deep on all five shelves to accommodate them all. That’d be sixty stacks of paperbacks alone, not counting the ones I crammed along the bookcase’s edges. I now have five little stacks of paperbacks that occupy two-thirds of a single shelf. In fact, every book I own fits in two bookcases, and the shelves are still so sparse that there’s plenty of room for artwork, picture frames, glass work, and baskets.
A casual visitor might inspect my shelves and walk away thinking that the only authors in whom I’m interested are Patrick Dennis and E. F. Benson, with minor flirtations with Ruth McKenney and John Dennis Fitzgerald. Maybe it’s true. The first three of those four are a big influence on my writing style, after all.
I have the books I want, though. If I accumulate a few more, I have space for them—which are words I haven’t always been able to say. If I shed some as they gradually come into public domain or as electronic versions are made . . . well, my iPad still won’t get any heavier.
(I should note that at no point did I get rid of any copies of my books. I probably have more author’s copies of my own novels than I have books by other people, at this point. They occupy their own shelves in the bedroom. I have a paranoid suspicion that they multiply like rabbits when I’m sleeping. I’m probably right, too—but let them breed, baby.)
Monday, March 17, 2014
Home
We were going to move. We were all ready to move. We’d actually started moving!
Then we decided not to move.
I know, it’s all very confusing. Let’s go back a little bit.
Ever since we sold our house in Detroit and relocated to Connecticut three years ago, we’ve been in transitional digs. We had the movers pack up everything from our two-story colonial and transport it to our temporary quarters, a one-bedroom flat on the first floor of an old church rectory. For the first week of our residence here, we slept on an inflatable mattress and lived out of suitcases while we waited for our furniture to arrive.
We expected only to have to stay in the flat for four or five months, tops. The church that had hired my husband had made promises about housing; it was the deciding reason I’d consented to let him take the position. We didn’t know what they were going to do, exactly, but we knew it was going to be something. So when the movers arrived the next week with our belongings, we decided to do as little unpacking as possible. We filled up the basement of the old rectory with all our boxes—books, CDs, DVDs, decorations, everything the movers had stuffed into cardboard containers, everything I’d packed, everything that had sat in the garage for a year while the house sold. Anything that couldn’t go into the basement, we put into a hired storage unit.
We let the movers move as much into the flat as we could justify stuffing in there. Mostly we let it sit wherever they decided to dump it. A chest ended up next to the front door. One of our sofas—both were beat up and due to be replaced, but we decided not to do anything until we ended up in our permanent quarters—sat by it self in the dining room. From the basement we dug out a couple of lamps so we could see by night, and some dishes and a few pots and pans to cook with, but the happy assumption we made was that within a few months, we’d be somewhere else. Why unpack everything just to pack it up again?
The thing of it was that we lived this way for all three of our years here. We never made any attempt to fill up shelves or organize anything. We rolled our dice that first week and just let them lay. Every month we learned something new about the housing situation. A committee had been formed. The committee was meeting. The committee had decided to do a study. The study resulted in another committee, which was going to renovate one of the church’s properties for us. The committee had to wait for the tenants to move out, then for the bids to come in, and then for the renovations to begin. We grew older and older, the boxes in the basement grew moldier and more rotten, and my sense of restlessness and of being a vagrant grew uneasily greater.
I’ve written about the house finally nearing completion, in recent months. In anticipation of moving, we ordered new furniture to replace the beat-up stuff, and had it delivered to the house. We moved everything from the storage unit into the new place. We started moving boxes from the basement over, too.
Despite our anticipation, we still had one big question unanswered: how much was the new place going to cost us, every month?
It was already a little unsettling that in this area of the country we were paying more to rent a one-bedroom apartment than we had been paying on our mortgage for a three-bedroom home back in Detroit. Admittedly, that was Detroit. This is tony, much sought-after Greenwich. But we wouldn’t be able to figure out exactly how much more we’d have to be allotting for rent in the house until the renovations had been completed, the house assessed, and its official rental value set. Even at the time we started moving, the final number was a total mystery.
A couple of weeks ago we finally found out what the assessed rental had been. Even at the hefty, more-than-half-off discount the church had decided to give us, it was still several hundred dollars more than what we were paying for the apartment. We knew all along we’d have to pay taxes on the difference between the rent we were going to pay and the rent anyone else would have paid; it’s calculated by the government as a taxable benefit. Not until we had those numbers, though, were we able to figure out exactly how much tax that benefit would cost us.
When we toted up the rent, the amount of extra tax we’d have to be paying, and the utilities we don’t pay now but would have to assume there—water, gas, and heat—we came to the sober realization that while we certainly could move to the house and afford it, kind of, we wouldn’t be able to do anything else. Like, ever. And isn’t the big benefit of living in the metropolitan New York City area supposed to be the abundance of things to do?
After a weekend of soul-searching, we decided not to move at all. We’d stay in our flat, at the same percentage discount we’d be getting off the house. Neither one of us wanted to trade experiences for space.
I tell you. I’ve never been so happy about a decision in my life. I didn’t really care one way or the other what we chose. I was just ecstatic that after four long years of waiting, we finally knew where it was going to be.
I guess I’m a nester. I like a comfortable home filled with objects that mean something to me. Home is where I work; it’s where I relax, where I bring my friends when I can. Growing up, I was never able to think or do my homework or play unless my room was in order. I haven’t changed much as an adult. I’ve been the last four years in disarray and I’ve felt every moment of it, personally and professionally. We might have been living here, but I never felt at home.
That’s changed, though. We’ve spent the last two weeks moving into the apartment in a way we should’ve, long back. Instead of storing pots and pans on a metal rack that used to house chemicals and panes of glass from my old studio, that the movers dumped into the kitchen the first day, they’re in new spots in actual reorganized cabinets. The rack has been banished to the basement again and one of our old bookshelves sits in its place, modestly housing the small kitchen appliances. Our old sofas are gone for good, replaced by the new furniture that sat for a month in the house where we might have moved. The dining room now houses bookshelves for the small library I’ve left myself, our piano, a comfortable armchair, a small bar, and the dining room table. It feels more like a space for actual living than it did when it was That Room Where We Kicked Off Our Shoes And Left Our Coats.
Everything’s put away—music, books, DVDs, tablecloths, bed linens, crystal, the good China. Everything has a place, or soon will. The basement is nearly clear. I’ve hung framed photographs and our ceramic art tiles in every room. My glass work has a showcase in the built-in cabinets in our dining room. Even my old board games from my youth found a space in the coat closet—just in case I ever make any acquaintances who want to come over and play Probe or Smess or King Oil or Clue. (But I get to be Miss Scarlet.) I’m very proud of the work we’ve managed to do over the last couple of weeks. The flat has gone from feeling like someplace we slept nights while we sojourned somewhere new—a hotel room in Las Vegas for a week—and more like a real, actual place that I’m proud to call home.
The weeks were not without their casualties, however. The basement is not completely water-tight. While it did weather both Hurricanes Irene and Katrina with only mild puddling, it’s still a hundred-and-fifty-year-old basement that’s barely a step above a glorified fruit cellar. Some stuff did suffer. I lost a large box of shoes to rot and mildew—not really a big loss, since I actually had thought I’d given them away to Goodwill already. One box of Dover clip art books, and collections of Bloom County happened to fall from a stack into a puddle at some point, and the whole thing was so irretrievably ruined that I had to wrap it in plastic so I could pick it up safely to chuck it in the dumpster. I lost a few other paperbacks that had been crushed beyond recognition. I’m afraid to touch my old French horn case, which looks as if it’s been overgrown by a mutant fungus from The X-Files.
Small things, though. They’re sacrifices I gladly make in exchange for feeling like I’m home again.
Then we decided not to move.
I know, it’s all very confusing. Let’s go back a little bit.
Ever since we sold our house in Detroit and relocated to Connecticut three years ago, we’ve been in transitional digs. We had the movers pack up everything from our two-story colonial and transport it to our temporary quarters, a one-bedroom flat on the first floor of an old church rectory. For the first week of our residence here, we slept on an inflatable mattress and lived out of suitcases while we waited for our furniture to arrive.
We expected only to have to stay in the flat for four or five months, tops. The church that had hired my husband had made promises about housing; it was the deciding reason I’d consented to let him take the position. We didn’t know what they were going to do, exactly, but we knew it was going to be something. So when the movers arrived the next week with our belongings, we decided to do as little unpacking as possible. We filled up the basement of the old rectory with all our boxes—books, CDs, DVDs, decorations, everything the movers had stuffed into cardboard containers, everything I’d packed, everything that had sat in the garage for a year while the house sold. Anything that couldn’t go into the basement, we put into a hired storage unit.
We let the movers move as much into the flat as we could justify stuffing in there. Mostly we let it sit wherever they decided to dump it. A chest ended up next to the front door. One of our sofas—both were beat up and due to be replaced, but we decided not to do anything until we ended up in our permanent quarters—sat by it self in the dining room. From the basement we dug out a couple of lamps so we could see by night, and some dishes and a few pots and pans to cook with, but the happy assumption we made was that within a few months, we’d be somewhere else. Why unpack everything just to pack it up again?
The thing of it was that we lived this way for all three of our years here. We never made any attempt to fill up shelves or organize anything. We rolled our dice that first week and just let them lay. Every month we learned something new about the housing situation. A committee had been formed. The committee was meeting. The committee had decided to do a study. The study resulted in another committee, which was going to renovate one of the church’s properties for us. The committee had to wait for the tenants to move out, then for the bids to come in, and then for the renovations to begin. We grew older and older, the boxes in the basement grew moldier and more rotten, and my sense of restlessness and of being a vagrant grew uneasily greater.
I’ve written about the house finally nearing completion, in recent months. In anticipation of moving, we ordered new furniture to replace the beat-up stuff, and had it delivered to the house. We moved everything from the storage unit into the new place. We started moving boxes from the basement over, too.
Despite our anticipation, we still had one big question unanswered: how much was the new place going to cost us, every month?
It was already a little unsettling that in this area of the country we were paying more to rent a one-bedroom apartment than we had been paying on our mortgage for a three-bedroom home back in Detroit. Admittedly, that was Detroit. This is tony, much sought-after Greenwich. But we wouldn’t be able to figure out exactly how much more we’d have to be allotting for rent in the house until the renovations had been completed, the house assessed, and its official rental value set. Even at the time we started moving, the final number was a total mystery.
A couple of weeks ago we finally found out what the assessed rental had been. Even at the hefty, more-than-half-off discount the church had decided to give us, it was still several hundred dollars more than what we were paying for the apartment. We knew all along we’d have to pay taxes on the difference between the rent we were going to pay and the rent anyone else would have paid; it’s calculated by the government as a taxable benefit. Not until we had those numbers, though, were we able to figure out exactly how much tax that benefit would cost us.
When we toted up the rent, the amount of extra tax we’d have to be paying, and the utilities we don’t pay now but would have to assume there—water, gas, and heat—we came to the sober realization that while we certainly could move to the house and afford it, kind of, we wouldn’t be able to do anything else. Like, ever. And isn’t the big benefit of living in the metropolitan New York City area supposed to be the abundance of things to do?
After a weekend of soul-searching, we decided not to move at all. We’d stay in our flat, at the same percentage discount we’d be getting off the house. Neither one of us wanted to trade experiences for space.
I tell you. I’ve never been so happy about a decision in my life. I didn’t really care one way or the other what we chose. I was just ecstatic that after four long years of waiting, we finally knew where it was going to be.
I guess I’m a nester. I like a comfortable home filled with objects that mean something to me. Home is where I work; it’s where I relax, where I bring my friends when I can. Growing up, I was never able to think or do my homework or play unless my room was in order. I haven’t changed much as an adult. I’ve been the last four years in disarray and I’ve felt every moment of it, personally and professionally. We might have been living here, but I never felt at home.
That’s changed, though. We’ve spent the last two weeks moving into the apartment in a way we should’ve, long back. Instead of storing pots and pans on a metal rack that used to house chemicals and panes of glass from my old studio, that the movers dumped into the kitchen the first day, they’re in new spots in actual reorganized cabinets. The rack has been banished to the basement again and one of our old bookshelves sits in its place, modestly housing the small kitchen appliances. Our old sofas are gone for good, replaced by the new furniture that sat for a month in the house where we might have moved. The dining room now houses bookshelves for the small library I’ve left myself, our piano, a comfortable armchair, a small bar, and the dining room table. It feels more like a space for actual living than it did when it was That Room Where We Kicked Off Our Shoes And Left Our Coats.
Everything’s put away—music, books, DVDs, tablecloths, bed linens, crystal, the good China. Everything has a place, or soon will. The basement is nearly clear. I’ve hung framed photographs and our ceramic art tiles in every room. My glass work has a showcase in the built-in cabinets in our dining room. Even my old board games from my youth found a space in the coat closet—just in case I ever make any acquaintances who want to come over and play Probe or Smess or King Oil or Clue. (But I get to be Miss Scarlet.) I’m very proud of the work we’ve managed to do over the last couple of weeks. The flat has gone from feeling like someplace we slept nights while we sojourned somewhere new—a hotel room in Las Vegas for a week—and more like a real, actual place that I’m proud to call home.
The weeks were not without their casualties, however. The basement is not completely water-tight. While it did weather both Hurricanes Irene and Katrina with only mild puddling, it’s still a hundred-and-fifty-year-old basement that’s barely a step above a glorified fruit cellar. Some stuff did suffer. I lost a large box of shoes to rot and mildew—not really a big loss, since I actually had thought I’d given them away to Goodwill already. One box of Dover clip art books, and collections of Bloom County happened to fall from a stack into a puddle at some point, and the whole thing was so irretrievably ruined that I had to wrap it in plastic so I could pick it up safely to chuck it in the dumpster. I lost a few other paperbacks that had been crushed beyond recognition. I’m afraid to touch my old French horn case, which looks as if it’s been overgrown by a mutant fungus from The X-Files.
Small things, though. They’re sacrifices I gladly make in exchange for feeling like I’m home again.
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